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25 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
In a nutshell:
I'm genuine, funny, and intelligent--and I look for the same. I'm an official twenty-something, figuring shit out. My primary goals in life are to find meaning and experience joy. (And yes, they are intertwined.)

Here's a longer version:
I like to be critical and thoughtful. I like memorizing things. I like baking and cooking. I watch a lot of Netflix. I'm inherently lazy. My one true love is eating out--good food, good drink, and good service are almost all I need in this world. It's too bad I'm not independently wealthy. Oh well.

I enjoy running, though I'm not a gym freak. I enjoy reading, though I don't do enough of it. I claim to be extroverted, but spend a lot of time by myself.

I value most highly great conversation and loving relationships. I value learning, wisdom, and knowledge. Engaging with a text really turns me on. So does dancing to really loud music. So does incredible talent.

I like to spend a lot of time thinking through things, and I like men (people) who will engage with me, think through them with me, and perhaps offer insight I had never considered. Things I like to discuss: meaning, beauty, joy, religion, the nature of forgiveness, the mind, art, music, language. Or really anything of value.

I'm a narcissist. I'm working on it. And I really can be quite sweet and caring. It's important to me to express myself; to be honest and forthright.

If you've made it this far, phew! Good work. I could drone on and on about myself.
What about you? Who are you? What brings you joy?
What I’m doing with my life
Moving to Seattle this summer! Just got accepted to an acting internship and I'm super stoked. My career goal for the immediate future is to get paid to act. I love theater. I love acting, I love directing, I love working with kids.

And I've got back-up plans to study music in grad school, too. It's what I majored in and I'm kind of a whiz at music theory and I've got a love and a knack for conducting. So we'll see.
I’m really good at
Acting, working with theater kids (teenagers, please, I haven't dealt with little ones yet!), music theory, conducting, reciting poetry, getting along with people, cooking breakfast, listening, and kissing are among my strengths.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know.

A comment I got at an audition once:
"You're very interesting to watch. The eye wants to track you."
Took it as a compliment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Where the Wild Things Are, Macbeth (I know, not technically a book), Heart of Darkness, The Giving Tree, The Good Earth, 1984, The Hobbit (read it several times), Eros The Bittersweet, Disgrace.
I love films by idiosyncratic directors like Wes Anderson, The Cohen Brothers, Christopher Guest, Stanley Kubric, Martin Scorsese and Tim Burton. I love movies. I would like to fancy myself a movie buff, but I know there are too many classics I haven't seen. Let's watch one together?
I love classical music. It's what I studied in school. I'm particularly fond of Beethoven, Chopin, Brahms, Stravinsky, Britten, and Philip Glass, to name a few. Also really love Baroque and Impressionism. Okay, so I love everything. Also a big fan of (in no particular order) Queen, David Bowie, Blondie, Supertramp, Rufus Wainwright, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple, The Beatles, Mayer Hawthorne, Beach House, and many more.
I like food. A lot. I love going to good restaurants and eating well. I also love corn dogs and French fries. There are only a few foods that I genuinely don't like: peas, ketchup, Mountain Dew. I'm even coming around to ketchup. And snap peas are ok.
The six things I could never do without
Good music, good food, good conversation, powerful theatre, sexy men, and coffee of any kind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Men. Sex. Music. Beauty. Meaning. Ethics. Films. Unconscious motivation. Food. Men. (Oh, I said that one.)
On a typical Friday night I am
At work. Haven't had a Friday off in a very long time. On my nights off I almost always go to a movie and out to dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm insatiably sexual. I like to go at it two or three times a day. I'm just perpetually horny.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you want to!