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25 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:12pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Maybe I serve you coffee.

In a nutshell:
I'm genuine, funny, and intelligent--and I look for the same. I'm an official twenty-something, figuring shit out. My primary goals in life are to find meaning and experience joy. (And yes, they are intertwined.)

Here's a longer version:
I like to be critical and thoughtful. I like memorizing things. I like baking and cooking. I watch a lot of Netflix. I'm inherently lazy. My one true love is eating out--good food, good drink, and good service are almost all I need in this world. Sadly, it's not in the budget right now.

I enjoy running, though I'm not a gym freak. I enjoy reading, though I don't do enough of it. I claim to be extroverted, but spend a lot of time by myself.

I value most highly great conversation and loving relationships. I value learning, wisdom, and knowledge. Engaging with a text really turns me on. So does dancing to really loud music. So does incredible talent.

I like to spend a lot of time thinking through things, and I like men (people) who will engage with me, think through them with me, and perhaps offer insight I had never considered. Things I like to discuss: meaning, beauty, joy, religion, the nature of forgiveness, the mind, art, music, language. Or really anything of value.

I'm a narcissist. I'm working on it. And I really can be quite sweet and caring. It's important to me to express myself; to be honest and forthright.

If you've made it this far, phew! Good work. I could drone on and on about myself.
What about you? Who are you? What brings you joy?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recently moved to Seattle to pursue theatre. I'm an actor (/director/teacher/singer/conductor/server/barista). My career goal for the immediate future is to get paid to act. I love theater. I love acting, I love directing, I love working with kids.

Currently following the advice of a director friend: Spend a few years, auditioning, acting, taking some classes. Then apply to good graduate programs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Acting, working with theater kids (teenagers, please, I haven't dealt with little ones yet!), music theory, conducting, reciting poetry, getting along with people, cooking breakfast, listening, and kissing are among my strengths. My latte art is alright.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know.

A comment I got at an audition once:
"You're very interesting to watch. The eye wants to track you."
Took it as a compliment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Where the Wild Things Are, Shakespeare (I know, not technically books), The Stranger, Heart of Darkness, The Giving Tree, The Good Earth, 1984, The Hobbit (read it several times), Eros The Bittersweet, Disgrace.
Currently reading: Moby Dick. Slowly. I'll read a chapter or two, then put it down for a while. It's great, by the way.

Also enjoy poetry. Huge fan of Gerard Manley Hopkins. I know several of his by heart. I also like Heaney, Whitman, and others. Not exactly a buff, but I enjoy it.

Star Wars.
I love movies. All kinds. (Most kinds.)
I enjoy many films by strong, idiosyncratic directors like Wes Anderson, The Cohen Brothers, Christopher Guest, Stanley Kubric, Martin Scorsese, Tim Burton.
I would like to fancy myself a movie buff, but I know there are too many classics I haven't seen. Let's watch one together?

I love classical music. It's what I studied in school. I'm particularly fond of Beethoven, Chopin, Brahms, Stravinsky, Britten, and Philip Glass, to name a few. Also really love the Baroque and Impressionism. Okay, so I love everything. Also a big fan of (in no particular order) Queen, David Bowie, Blondie, Supertramp, Rufus Wainwright, Regina Spektor, Fiona Apple, The Beatles, Mayer Hawthorne, Beach House, and many more.

I like food. A lot. I love going to good restaurants and eating well. I also love corn dogs and French fries. I am not a picky eater. By choice that is. Cruel lactose often dictates that I be picky. There are very very few foods that I don't care for. (Why on earth you would want to ruin french fries with ketchup is beyond me.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good music, good food, good conversation, powerful theatre, sexy men, and coffee of any kind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Men. Sex. Music. Beauty. Meaning. Ethics. Films. Unconscious motivation. Food. Men. (Oh, I said that one.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner, seeing a show, or in bed because I have to work Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm insatiably sexual.

(And I don't have many secrets.)
You should message me if
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If you want to!