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34 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 13
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Hello potential someone!

My name is Ryan. I'm 32 years old, living in San Francisco and working down south in San Jose for a pretty awesome tech company in Operations. I don't think I've read a single profile that doesn't say something about being "fun loving" or "down to earth", so just pretend that mine says that too. My hobbies are mostly competitive sports, including shooting (ooh, scaaary). I've been playing softball/baseball for most of my life and got tragically hooked on playing ice hockey in the past couple of years, granted I'm terrible, but I love it!

Professionally, I've already achieved so much more than I ever expected I would by this age. I'm very driven, but make no mistake about it that I guard my free-time, my play-time, and my God time all as things that are precious to me. I read a lot of profiles on here and find that people are always wanting a guy to be well-established, and good for you that you want that! Friendship wise, I prefer to have a small number of great friends than hundreds of acquaintances. I've had a few great relationships with fantastic women and have become confident that I now know exactly what I am looking for in a long-term mate. Granted, I'm as shallow as the next person when it comes to clicking through profiles, but I always read through the fine print to make sure that you are family oriented, and has interesting hobbies aside from shopping for expensive purses, designer clothing, and new shades of lipstick for you to make pucker-duck-face with. Really girls, it looks ridiculous, even if you're drop-dead gorgeous. But I digress.. :)

My education (skipping over high-school) is 5 years studying Telecom Management another 2 years in Bible College.

I'll probably lose some of you with this confession, but I've always loved country music. It's not what I listen to much these days, as I've been listening mainly to Dub-Step and Christian Rock, along with older 80-90s electronic-rock from groups like Depeche Mode and The Cure, etc. Some of my favourite bands include TFK, Pillar, Red, and Flyleaf. Dub-Step wise, I love Bassnectar and Scrillix as to death. I also love classical, but I don't know much about the DNA of music or anything.

I LOVE to sing. It's hard to get me to stop singing. It's really fun to take super serious songs and make up crazy lyrics on the fly. Karaoke is fun too, but I never need a microphone or scrolling lyrics to bust out into song randomly.

You'll probably have to be a little spontaneous and zany to fully 'get me'. I don't smoke (if I ever do, please grab a fire extinguisher and put me out, preferably with the blunt end), and I'm a social drinker, which means I probably have 3-4 drinks in a given month while watching sports events. I'm not searching for hook-up partners or people that think showing their boobies of butt more prevalently than their face is a good way to meet a future husband. Yes, I may enjoy the picture deep down inside, but I won't want to meet you. If you think anything I've written here is interesting, message me. Even if we aren't a perfect match, I still love to get to know new people, so please don't be shy. I also don't really do "pick up lines", so don't be disappointed if I just start chatting like we've been friends for years.
What I’m doing with my life
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Since last deciding to become single I decided to take a promotion at work which has meant a lot of time working on my career. Things are going well there, but I also have a desire to have a deep and meaningful relationship with someone that I can spend my life with. Don't worry, I won't propose on the second date or anything, I said the right person, not just anyone.

In my spare time I've been enjoying watching and playing sports. Dating is a little stressful with all the trying to figure each other out and decide if we're on the same page. Jealous of the people that are past this part already ;-)
I’m really good at
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I'm pretty good at having a lot of first dates recently, but most of them haven't been with the right people. Hoping that Cupid's method of matching will work a little better.

I'm really good at surviving stressful and difficult situations. Also really good at treating women like they're the first lady in the world, but you'll have to meet me to know that (don't just take my word for it).
The first things people usually notice about me
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People notice my positive attitude, energy, and sense of humor. Physically, I've been told that I'm attractive - better than my pics. Hopefully that isn't just flattery.