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wallflowerqueer

28 / M / Bisexual / Single

Madison, Wisconsin

His Details

Last Online
May 13
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Writer, Jew, parent, polyamorous, queer, looking for friends/lovers/what have you. I have a Mario tattoo on my back. It's awesome. Wanna see it?

Yes, I'm in a LTR with my partner of 10 (!) years, we have a kid who is incredibly important to us, and he and I are also poly. So we date people outside of our relationship. Hope that's not too confusing to you.

If it is (or even if it isn't), I'm also definitely in the market for meeting new people who want to hang out with or without kid(s), play tabletop RPG, chat about anything or nothing, ride bikes, wander the farmer's market, or whatever else strikes our fancies.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing, unpublished but working on it, ever so steadily. Making toys and knickknacks out of wood. Trying to find little ways to help people and change the world.
I’m really good at
Writing. Parenting. Listening. Cooking up tasty things. Basically I'm pretty awesome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a little strange. I also have a tattoo on my forearm, a double helix on half, and my kid's name in hebrew on the other.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Authors are way easier for me. Off the top of my head, I <3 Catherynne Valente, Neil Gaiman (though he can also say a lot of problematic shit that pisses me off), Hemingway, Nabokov, Nnedi Okorafor, Ursula Le Guin, and China Mieville. I might read a lot.

Movies/Shows: Doctor Who, Sherlock, X-Files, Twin Peaks, Serenity, Firefly, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Avengers, Mirrormask, Labyrinth...I also kind of adore older, terrible movies. Like old Godzilla dubs, Ghosbusters, Back to the Future. Terrible stuff :) Sometimes, when I'm bored, I write--gasp--fanfiction.

Music: Seven Nations, Daft Punk, Metric, Tori Amos. My all time favorite is The Mountain Goats, but I listen to a lot of music and have pretty eclectic tastes.
The six things I could never do without
1) My family (both biological and chosen)
2) Writing supplies
3) Books
4) Time to myself
5) Sushi
6) Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My kid, my writing, and whatever woodworking project I happen to be puttering around on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Shabbat shalom! Eating, drinking wine, and being silly. Sometimes I have friends over, or go places with them, but I admit, not as often as I probably ought to/would like to...
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You're queer-friendly and awesome. And you want to.