Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
OK, Cupid, I am back after a much needed hiatus, and now I'm ready
to bring joy into someone's life (and if I can't do that, or if I'm
bringing misery, then I won't waste your time or mine!)
I have a broad range of interests, including music, science,
philosophy, and language, but I also can be very focused. I have
found it essential to maintain a sense of (appropriate!) humor
whenever possible. I am a naturally friendly person, but I always
try to give other people space and not impose myself on them.
I am thoughtful, creative, and passionate.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am helping to preserve and maintain an ancient musical tradition
from northern India. I also practice, teach and perform other kinds
of music, from Henryk Wieniawski to Hank Williams. I try to spend
time making other people happy, and being in a relationship is one
way of doing that (it certainly shouldn't be about making someone
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, especially playing the violin or viola and singing, although
I am also a competent guitarist, mandolinist, uke player and
keyboardist. At its best, music brings people together and elevates
consciousness. I believe anyone can learn music and should not be
intimidated by elitism and egos.
I love studying languages, having become fluent in German (I spent
my junior undergrad year at Ruprecht Karls Universitaet
Heidelberg), taken a few years of Japanese (that's mostly gone,
sadly) and now struggling with Hindi (I have hundreds of classical
bandishes memorized, but I can't hold a real conversation) and
I am continually getting better at finding humor in the absurdity
of sentience. So, I started a fake religion on Facebook.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am usually carrying an instrument of some sort, and I'm pretty
tall, so it's hard for me to hide. I tend to smile a lot and be on
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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As a cautionary tale for teachers, nothing beats Peter Abelard's
"Historia Calamitatus" (ouch!).
Grew up reading Heinlein and Tolkien then Mishima [!], lately
Murakami's "Wind Up Bird Chronicles" and other Asian fiction;
Goethe is great, T.C. Boyle is badass, Isaac Bashevis Singer takes
me to my inner shtetl, and I'll read almost anything about history
(currently Marc Bloch's "The Royal Touch") or mythology...
I love classical music (European, Persian, Arabic, Turkish,
Hindustani [duh], Georgian), Jazz, the Blues, Bluegrass, Western
Swing (Bob Wills is King!), Reggae, (Jamaican and a little
two-tone) Ska, Old School Rap, early Punk, etc. (Not a big rocker,
but I get in the mood sometimes)
I seem to prefer movies that are in black and white (anyone who
loves movies should watch "Tetro", then go back and watch
"Rumblefish") or have subtitles (or both), but I'll take some Jim
Jarmusch, Monika Treut or Woody Allen in a pinch. Just bought "Dil
Se" and find it deeply disturbing but interesting.
I love food from India, the "Middle East", Ethiopia, and anywhere
else if it's fresh and not too meaty.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
air, water, food, shelter, music and love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How did we get here (as life forms, as a "civilization," etc)? What
can I do to make my short stay here meaningful and not too
unpleasant for myself and others? Is it time for lunch?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing music (gigging, practicing etc), or seeing someone else
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was a teenager, I would compulsively flair my nostrils
because I thought it would make me more handsome (really!).
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