A playful, easy going guy with strong hands, gentle touch, irreverent sense of humor and incorrigible mischief finder ;) My demeanor reflects a laid back personality that's easy to be around and with. Considerate, passionate, spontaneous, good listener and healthy in every regard. Kindness, compassion and generosity are important to me and strive to live them each day. Enamored with the prospect of living a snowbird lifestyle one day - the greater Scottsdale area as a winter home (or an acceptable alternative as to climate) and summers in the greater Seattle area. It's important you have, or are open to, a similar aspiration.
I have two awesome boys, 26 and 29, who are very important to me. Their mom did a great job with them and I enjoy their company greatly when their schedule permits, but they live elsewhere, so I come and go as I please.
Although I am naturally curious and have quite an adventurous bent, I also enjoy those slow, relaxing times at home with a significant other - comfortable quiet and stillness. My home environment is peaceful, comfortable and welcoming - I enjoy the company of good friends and taking care of others. Been single many years now and lead a very full life with friends, family, work and travel. Although my life would be greatly enhanced and fulfilling with the right woman, I'd rather stay single if it weren't a good match. For you ladies that are interested in dating but nothing serious: that tells a guy like me that you want to be seen on the arm of a man but are asexual. That is definitely NOT me. The age demographic I posted is a guide only - not cast in stone. How can you gauge a person solely by their age?
What I miss most about being in a great relationship is the dynamic of exclusivity - arriving at the point where we simultaneously decide to become a couple. Looking for that connection where passion and mind bending intimacy flow easily - the kind you dream of or read in a book. Sex is a powerful life force and paramount when it comes to compatibility, but to be honest, you will need to bring much more to the table for a lasting relationship. A true friend and companion that transcends gender differences is really what I hope to find.
You'll never need to provide for me and will require that you are financially and emotionally secure as well. Inherently kind and loving - a giver, as I am. Looking for a relationship built on trust - that is self sustaining through kindness and consideration to and for each other, as it's just a matter of time before a relationship is challenged by illness or circumstance. I've been around long enough to see and experience first hand what loss means and know for a fact that in the end, all that matters is love, that it's never OK to use the truth to hurt someone and that being kind is always better than being right................
If this resonates with you, perhaps we should get to know one another a little better - see if there's more than just casual interest via cyberspace :) If you possess that same combination of curiosity and adventure, rule bender and pusher of envelopes, we just may be able to find enough mischief to last a lifetime :)