A playful, easy going guy with strong hands, gentle touch, irreverent sense of humor and incorrigible mischief finder ;) My demeanor reflects a laid back personality that's easy to be around and with. Somewhat introverted. A thinker. I arrive at decisions slowly and methodically. Confident/independent/self sufficient - don't do well with someone that's clingy/needy. Considerate, passionate, spontaneous, good listener and healthy in every regard. Kindness, compassion and generosity are important to me and strive to live them each day. Enamored with the prospect of living a snowbird lifestyle one day - the greater Scottsdale area as a winter home (or an acceptable alternative) and summers in the greater Seattle area. It's important you have, or are open to, a similar aspiration.
I have two awesome boys, 27 and 30, who are very important to me. Their mom did a great job with them and I enjoy their company greatly when their schedule permits, but they live elsewhere, so I come and go as I please.
Although I am naturally curious and have quite an adventurous bent, I also enjoy those slow, relaxing times at home with a significant other - comfortable quiet and stillness. My home environment is peaceful, comfortable and welcoming - I enjoy the company of good friends and taking care of others. Been single many years now and lead a very full life with friends, family, work and travel. Although my life would be greatly enhanced and fulfilling with the right woman, I'd rather stay single if it weren't a good match. The age demographic I posted is a guide only - not cast in stone. How can you gauge a person solely by their age?
What I miss most about being in a great relationship is the companionship and the dynamic of companionship and exclusivity. Collaboration of all things great and small. Looking for that connection where passion and mind bending intimacy flow easily - the kind you dream of or read in a book. Sex is a powerful life force and paramount when it comes to compatibility, but to be honest, you will need to bring much more to the table than sex for a lasting relationship. A true friend and companion that transcends gender differences is really what I hope to find.
You'll never need to provide for me and will require that you are financially and emotionally secure as well. Inherently kind and loving - a giver, as I am. Looking for a relationship built on trust - that is self sustaining through kindness and consideration to and for each other, as it's just a matter of time before a relationship is challenged by illness or circumstance. I've been around long enough to see and experience first hand what loss means and know for a fact that in the end, all that matters is love, that it's never OK to use the truth to hurt someone and that being kind is always better than being right................
If this resonates with you, perhaps we should get to know one another a little better - see if there's more than just casual interest via cyberspace :) If you possess that same combination of curiosity and adventure, rule bender and pusher of envelopes, we just may be able to find enough mischief to last a lifetime :)