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wanderimland

26 / F / straight / Single

Durham, North Carolina

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am fun, smart, and charming.

My Self-Summary

LOL! Probably describes me pretty well. I love to laugh loudly! Laughing is my favorite thing to do in the entire world and I take full advantage of any opportunity I have to do so. Often others can hear me approaching because of my laugh and if I say so myself it is pretty contagious. My other interests include dancing, going to movies, concerts, museums, eating delicious food, reading, and shopping. Partaking in a festive beverage is always fun and sometimes my favorite thing to do is just to find a good couch and make it my destination for the day. I'm a bit sarcastic and although I'm only 5'5'' I have a large personality. I appreciate crappy reality television because it allows me to be completely vapid for 30 minutes to an hour. I need this because I have a tendency to think a lot and I'm a very observant person. I'm an extrovert who is finding that she has been getting in touch with her introverted side these days and it has been like fitting a square peg in a round hole. I enjoy people and people give me energy!

What I’m doing with my life

I'm working in Student Affairs. What does this mean? I get paid to work with college students. I'm a programmer, a counselor, a educator, a friend, a disciplinary, and a mentor, etc. for college students. Pretty cool, right? Yes, and if you ask me I'd love to tell you more about it.

I’m really good at

hmmm...public speaking, laughing :), listening, program planning, I have great style, remembering people's names, dancing, singing in my car/shower, writing, reading, making others feel good, my job, working hard, and maybe a whole other bunch of things that I refuse to give myself credit for or perhaps I just want to sound modest for this profile ;).

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and my outfit.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

TV- Daily Show, Colbert Report, Family Guy, The Office, Modern Family, The City, The Hills, Real Housewives (insert location here)

Movies- Mean Girls, American Beauty, The Color Purple, Where the Wild Things Are, Benjamin Button, Things We Lost in the Fire, Gone With the Wind, Imitation of Life

Books- anything by Jodi Picoult, Ruby, Sookie Stackhouse Books, The Great Gatsby, On Beauty, White Teeth, and many many more

The six things I could never do without

1. My family
2. A few of my friends (the really awesome ones)
3. A good book
4. My curling iron
5. Chapstick
6. Food

Not in this order...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My next step in life.

On a typical Friday night I am

I'm probably at home with a movie and chinese food or on a good night I'm out with friends having a drink and having fun on the nearest dancefloor. I would love to do more of the latter!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm an intensely private person. I don't think I'm willing to admit anything here.

You should message me if

You want to meet someone who would be a great audience for your most recent comedic material or if you want to have a deep conversation about sociological issues. I can do both pretty well. We could be lovers or friends both are appreciated but it'll take a bit more time for one than the other. You figure it out!