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wantonsonor

27 / M / Straight / Single

Astoria, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:18pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Aren't you supposed to summarize things at the end? Isn't this the time for introductions and seeds of ideas? OKCupid, you're such a rebel.

So, I grew up in "upstate" NY, but fell in love with the city as a kid over the course of many visits and escapades. I ended up going to school for music down here and just couldn't see myself returning to slow-paced suburbia... Fast-forward 4 years: I'm still in my first apartment, really dig Astoria, and am carving a fairly interesting existence out for myself (and hopefully those around me). Things are happening.
What I’m doing with my life
By night, I play drums and glockenspiel in an instrumental trio alongside an 8-string bass and cello... We play funk, and folk infused Post-Rock, for serious! I also seasonally play drums/percussion in a Hawaiian dance & music ensemble.

By day, I work as a carpenter/electrician and build, install, and tear down sets for a handful of theater/TV companies... It keeps those most necessary mannish skills on point.

Dreams of moving to Iceland to start a dairy farm & custom drum business are currently on hold.
I’m really good at
Busking.
Reading emotional shifts.
Swinging a hammer.
Chugging espresso.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably that whole long-haired, loud-mouthed, musician... thing. Gestaltism at it's finest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
These lists are by no means comprehensive or in any particular order.

Books: Game of Thrones, Shibumi, DUNE, Galapagos, A Clockwork Orange, A Confederacy of Dunces, Wind In The Willows, Where The Wild Things Are, Breakfast of Champions, 1984, American Psycho, As I Lay Dying.

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Blue Velvet, Office Space, Troll Hunter, Mulholland Drive, Ninja Scroll, 10 Items or Less, Kill Bill 1+2, Man On Wire, A Clockwork Orange, LOTR, Akira, The Good, the Bad and The Ugly, WALL-E, Ghost In The Shell.

Shows: Game of Thrones, It's Always Sunny, Rocko's Modern Life, Parks & Recs, The Office (up to Season 4ish), The Life and Times of Tim, Archer, Hey Arnold!, anything Steve Brule related.

Music: I've played piano since I was 8 and drums since I was 16, which inevitably led to getting a degree in music... The short story is, if anything is done well or interestingly enough, I'll listen to it. A very whittled down list follows:

Opeth, Protest The Hero, Frederic Chopin, Air, Deftones, Meshuggah, Russian Circles, Radiohead, The Black Dahlia Murder, Alice in Chains, Ludwig van Beethoven, The Dillinger Escape Plan, Pink Floyd, Incubus, Tool, Hella, Pelican, Imogen Heap, J.S. Bach, Between The Buried and Me, Sigur Ros, Hot Chip, Sergei Rachmaninoff, Explosions in The Sky, Dysrhythmia, Led Zeppelin, A Perfect Circle, The Doors, Béla Bartók, Wolves In The Throne Room, ad infinitum.

Food: Coffee+Savory = Everything. Good whiskey/bourbon counts as dessert.
The six things I could never do without
Good Coffee
Interaction
Possibility
Ephemera
Reddit
______?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What time signature(s) Tomas Haake is using.
Causality.
The physical act of love (If you get this reference, we're off to a very good start).
On a typical Friday night I am
There are lots of options in this town...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can tie a clove hitch while blindfolded.

Not exactly private, just rad: I met Triple H when my Hawaiian band played for his surprise 40th birthday party. He was an amazingly chill dude.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're compelled or interested.

Major bonus points for being chill, interesting, sexually aware, and artful.