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45 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 29
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I returned to the beautiful East Bay two and a half years ago after a hiatus in San Diego. It's good to be back.
I have been a farmer, city college professor, and a performer in a puppet theatre troupe, among other worldly pursuits. Presently I install edible permaculture gardens and grow food and flowers for a local restaurant.
What I’m doing with my life
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Transforming landscapes into edible gardens, and singing as much as possible. Recently I've been exploring the ancient theatre form of Cantastoria.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Exploring the intersections between art, theatre, and social change.
Harvesting and cooking from the garden.
I've also been known to get people to sing "Homegrown Tomatoes" on the sly…..
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmmm….blue eyes, easy laughter, and a colorful green bike helmet as I ride through the streets of Oakland.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The short list:

Writers: Rebecca Solnit, Wendell Berry, Arundhati Roy, Naomi Klein, David Abram, Luis Alberto Urrea, Barbara Kingsolver, Bill McKibben, Pattiann Rogers, e.e. cummings, Pablo Neruda, Jay Griffiths, Basho
Films: Secretary, An Angel at My Table, The Piano, Babel, Matewan, Run Lola Run, Rivers and Tides, This is Spinal Tap, Manufactured Landscapes, Werner Herzog's Happy People, Me and You and Everyone We Know, Carmen, Being There, West Side Story
Music: Presently loving music from the Republic of Georgia- Also enjoy Charming Hostess, Solas, Gustavo Santaolalla, Lila Downs, Iron and Wine, Lou Harrison, Manu Chao, Tom Waits, The Carolina Chocolate Drops, Steve Earle, Gillian Welch, Seu Jorge, Fleet Foxes, The Bad Plus, The Staple Singers, Aretha Franklin, Golem
Food: is an adventure! I'll try anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
just six?

walkable/bikeable cities
small farms
taking playfulness seriously
morning cup of tea
….and propinquity, for good measure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's the desirable story?
What will a post-carbon society look like?
The importance of art + humor in a melting world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or relaxing at home,
cooking up some fresh greens from the garden.
You should message me if
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You'd liked to get together for a cup of coffee or a walk in the hills.