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45 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I returned to the beautiful East Bay a year and a half ago after a hiatus in San Diego. It's good to be back!
I have been a farmer, city college professor, and a performer in a puppet theatre troupe, among other worldly pursuits. Presently I install edible permaculture gardens and am growing food and flowers for a local restaurant. Viva La Locavores!
What I’m doing with my life
Transforming landscapes into edible gardens, spending time with friends, and learning new songs on my accordion. Dream of collaborating on a rock opera about climate change. Care to be a co-conspirator?
I’m really good at
Seeking positive change in the world and imagining where public art, theatre, land use and social change intersect.
I love harvesting and cooking from the garden, thrive in nature and city spaces, and have been known to get people to sing "Homegrown Tomatoes" on the sly…..
I fancy myself a fairly good 'warbler' and find much delight in singing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmmm….blue eyes, easy laughter, a colorful green bike helmet as I ride through the streets of Oakland...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The short list:

Writers: Rebecca Solnit, Wendell Berry, Arundhati Roy, Naomi Klein, David Abram, Luis Alberto Urrea, Barbara Kingsolver, Bill McKibben...
Films: An Angel at My Table, The Piano, Babel, Matewan, Run Lola Run, Rivers and Tides, Spirited Away, This is Spinal Tap, Manufactured Landscapes, Secretary, Werner Herzog's Happy People, Me and You and Everyone We Know…..
Music: Presently loving music from the Republic of Georgia- Also enjoy Charming Hostess, Solas, Gustavo Santaolalla, Lila Downs, Iron and Wine, Lou Harrison, Manu Chao, Tom Waits, The Carolina Chocolate Drops, Steve Earle, Gillian Welch, Seu Jorge, Fleet Foxes, The Bad Plus
Food: From the garden/farm or farmer's market to the kitchen, I love sharing a meal together.
The six things I could never do without
just six?

Good friends
Walkable/bikeable cities
Small farms
Morning cup of tea
….and Propinquity, for good measure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The importance of art + humor + humility in a melting world.
What will a post-fossil fuel civilization look like?
True love and home-grown tomatoes....
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends seeing a film/some theatre or relaxing at home,
cooking up some fresh greens from the garden.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sang with ABBA when I was ten year's old.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're thoughtful, playful, cherish humor and creativity.
A keen observer of nature and someone who loves the home planet would also be sweet.