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25 Lafayette, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jan 29
Queer, Pansexual
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For the record, I hate summarizing myself online but here goes anyways...

I am a queer trans guy and I live with my long-term partner and our cat-children. I have a degree in Wildlife/Conservation Biology. I really enjoy cooking (especially for other people!), hiking, playing board games, traveling (cheaply). I am online too much for my own good.

I like interacting with people but I often feel socially awkward, at least at first. I procrastinate a lot. I often have a horrible attention span. I'm generally optimistic/upbeat and I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. I can sleep anywhere, anytime (even on rocks in the middle of the day!) I can be a really huge grump when I am hungry and/or tired (but then, who isn't?). I love the sun but I hate the heat.

I am originally from Massachusetts but moved to Lafayette to be with my partner and support them through PhD.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working various seasonal/temporary odd jobs (most recently field work, retail, and movie theater). Volunteering with local LGBTQ and social justice groups. Still trying to figure out my long-term career plans. I am currently considering going back to school to pursue my M.S. in Education.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking (I especially like making elaborate dinners!). Forgetting stuff. Making people laugh at my own expense. Cuddling/hugging/giving affection (or so I have been told! I always ask first though.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am often wearing some sort of super hero shirt even though I don't read comics as much as I'd like to. I've also heard my eyes/smile/beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like fantasy, sci-fi, and ecology books. Currently re-reading the Animorphs series (lol nostalgia/childhood fave). On my to-read list: Evolution's Rainbow - Joan Roughgarden; Sister Citizen - Melissa Harris-Perry; Redefining Realness - Janet Mock.

Movies: I love suspense-thrillers, horror, super hero blockbusters, cheesy romantic comedies. I don't know, people often think I have bad taste in movies, probably because I will watch anything :P But I don't often have the attention span for full-length films unless I am in a movie theater.

Shows: Star Trek (TNG), Orange is the New Black, Dexter, True Blood, Scandal, Parks and Recreation, The Office, The L Word, Adventure Time, Lost Girl, Legend of Korra/ATLA, Sleepy Hollow, The Walking Dead, Elementaryl, House of Cards, Breaking Bad... the list keeps growing.

Music: Again, I am not very picky. I like stuff ranging from R&B to country to folk punk to classic rock... a few of my favorite bands these days include: Mumford & Sons, Nana Grizol, Defiance Ohio, The Lumineers, Indigo Girls, The Weakerthans, The Mountain Goats.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
internet, affection, sleep, sunshine, birds, humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not I should eat a cheeseburger today. Inter-personal relationships. The state of the world. Sciency things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home trying to decide what I want to do (because I am indecisive). Then I usually opt to (a) just marathon a TV show or play video games or (b) go out for a beer with friends or maybe have a game night.
You should message me if
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You want to chat, meet for coffee, or whatever. I have a lot of free time lately and am open to conversations.

This especially applies if you are queer, gender-bendy, anti-capitalist, cat-lover, foodie, like nerdy things, and/or outdoorsie person who likes to eat delicious things, play board/video games, and are looking for friends. Or if you're just interested in getting to know me better, I suppose.

I suck at initiating convos. If you'd like to initiate a conversation with me, I respond best to questions.