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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 22
Queer, Pansexual
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I really hate self-summaries but here goes.

I am a queer trans guy and I live with my long-term partner and our cat-children. I have a degree in Wildlife/Conservation Biology but I'm also interested in working in education. I really enjoy cooking, hiking/being outside, playing board games, traveling (cheaply), playing Skyrim. I am online too much for my own good.

I like interacting with people but I often feel awkward, at least at first.

I am originally from Massachusetts but moved to Lafayette to be with my partner and support them through PhD.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working at an elementary school and loving it! I'm looking into going back to school for a M.S. in Education. I also work various seasonal/temporary field jobs studying bird populations and behavior. In my free time, I volunteer with local LGBTQ and social justice groups.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking (I especially like making elaborate dinners for large amounts of people.) Also, one of my friends told me I make the best fried eggs so there's that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am often wearing some sort of super hero shirt even though I don't read comics as much as I'd like to. I've also heard my eyes/smile/beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like fantasy, sci-fi, and ecology books. Currently re-reading the Animorphs series (lol nostalgia/childhood fave). On my to-read list: Evolution's Rainbow - Joan Roughgarden; Sister Citizen - Melissa Harris-Perry; Redefining Realness - Janet Mock.

Movies: I love suspense-thrillers, horror, super hero blockbusters, cheesy romantic comedies. I don't know, people often think I have bad taste in movies, probably because I will watch anything :P But I don't often have the attention span for full-length films unless I am in a movie theater.

Shows: Legend of Korra/Avatar, The 100, Elementary, Scandal, Parks and Recreation, The Office, Adventure Time, Lost Girl, Sleepy Hollow, House of Cards, Breaking Bad... the list keeps growing.

Music: Again, I am not very picky. I like stuff ranging from R&B to country to folk punk to classic rock... a few of my favorite bands these days include: Mumford & Sons, Nana Grizol, Defiance Ohio, The Lumineers, Indigo Girls, The Weakerthans, The Mountain Goats.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
internet, affection, sleep, sunshine, birds, humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not I should eat a cheeseburger today. Inter-personal relationships. The state of the world. Sciency things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home with my partner or a small group of friends. Playing video games or board games. Sometimes going out to the movies or for drinks.
You should message me if
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You want to chat, meet for coffee, or whatever. I have a lot of free time lately and am open to conversations.

This especially applies if you are queer, anti-capitalist, cat-lover, foodie, like nerdy things, and/or outdoorsie person who likes to eat delicious things, play board/video games, and are looking for friends. Or if you're just interested in getting to know me better, I suppose.

I suck at initiating convos. If you'd like to initiate a conversation with me, I respond best to questions.