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25 M Lafayette, IN

My Details

Last Online
Mar 7
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
For the record, I hate self-summaries but I am going to try really hard here...

Queer, trans, goofy, recovering hermit who just moved to the Lafayette area from out-of-state. I live with my long-term partner and our cat-children. I have a degree in Wildlife/Conservation Biology. I really enjoy cooking (especially for other people!), hiking, playing Settlers of Catan (and basically any other game), swimming, traveling (cheaply), and various other activities. I am online too much for my own good.

I like interacting with people but I often feel socially awkward. I procrastinate a lot. I have a horrible attention span, usually. I'm generally optimistic/upbeat and I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. I can sleep anywhere, anytime (even on rocks in the middle of the day. Yep.) I can be a really huge grump when I am hungry and/or tired. I love the sun but I hate the heat.

I am originally from Massachusetts and the Midwest is all very new to me, but I think I really like it so far.

I try not to take myself too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
Working part-time Party City/ a movie theater, finishing my M.S. thesis in ecology, and exploring the Midwest. I eventually hope to have a more long-term day job that includes going outside at least 25-50% of the time.
I’m really good at
Cooking. Forgetting stuff. Making people laugh at my own expense.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am often wearing some sort of super hero shirt even though I don't read comics as much as I'd like to. I've also heard my eyes/smile/beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I like fantasy, sci-fi, and ecology books. Currently re-reading the Animorphs series (lol nostalgia/childhood fave). On my to-read list: Evolution's Rainbow - Joan Roughgarden; Sister Citizen - Melissa Harris-Perry; Redefining Realness - Janet Mock.

Movies: I love suspense-thrillers, horror, super hero blockbusters, cheesy romantic comedies. I don't know, people often think I have bad taste in movies, probably because I will watch anything :P But I don't often have the attention span for full-length films unless I am in a movie theater.

Shows: Star Trek (TNG), Orange is the New Black, Dexter, True Blood, Scandal, Parks and Recreation, The Office, The L Word, Adventure Time, Lost Girl, Legend of Korra/ATLA, Sleepy Hollow, The Walking Dead, Elementaryl, House of Cards, Breaking Bad... the list keeps growing.

Music: Again, I am not very picky. I like stuff ranging from R&B to country to folk punk to classic rock... a few of my favorite bands these days include: Mumford & Sons, Nana Grizol, Defiance Ohio, The Lumineers, Indigo Girls, The Weakerthans, The Mountain Goats.
The six things I could never do without
internet, french fries, sleep, sunshine, birds, humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether or not I should eat a cheeseburger today. Inter-personal relationships. The state of the world. Sciency things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting at home trying to decide what I want to do (because I am indecisive). Then I usually opt to just marathon a TV show or play video games or sometimes go out for beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate pants, shirts... and wearing clothes in general. Clearly I'm not very private eh?
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You want to chat, meet for coffee, or whatever. I have a lot of free time lately and am open to conversations.

This especially applies if you are queer, gender-bendy, anti-capitalist, cat-lover, foodie, and/or outdoorsie person who likes to eat delicious things, play board/video games, and are looking for friends. Or if you're just interested in getting to know me better, I suppose.

I suck at initiating convos. If you'd like to initiate a conversation with me, I respond best to questions.