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25 Lafayette, IN Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 30
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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For the record, I hate summarizing myself online but here goes anyways...

I am a queer trans guy and I live with my long-term partner and our cat-children. I have a degree in Wildlife/Conservation Biology. I really enjoy cooking (especially for other people!), hiking, playing board games, traveling (cheaply). I am online too much for my own good.

I like interacting with people but I often feel socially awkward, at least at first. I procrastinate a lot. I often have a horrible attention span. I'm generally optimistic/upbeat and I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. I can sleep anywhere, anytime (even on rocks in the middle of the day!) I can be a really huge grump when I am hungry and/or tired (but then, who isn't?). I love the sun but I hate the heat.

I am originally from Massachusetts but moved to Lafayette to be with my partner and support them through PhD.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working various seasonal/temporary odd jobs (most recently field work, retail, and movie theater). Volunteering with local LGBTQ and social justice groups. Still trying to figure out my long-term career plans. I am currently considering going back to school to pursue my M.S. in Education.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking (I especially like making elaborate dinners!). Forgetting stuff. Making people laugh at my own expense. Cuddling/hugging/giving affection (or so I have been told! I always ask first though.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am often wearing some sort of super hero shirt even though I don't read comics as much as I'd like to. I've also heard my eyes/smile/beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like fantasy, sci-fi, and ecology books. Currently re-reading the Animorphs series (lol nostalgia/childhood fave). On my to-read list: Evolution's Rainbow - Joan Roughgarden; Sister Citizen - Melissa Harris-Perry; Redefining Realness - Janet Mock.

Movies: I love suspense-thrillers, horror, super hero blockbusters, cheesy romantic comedies. I don't know, people often think I have bad taste in movies, probably because I will watch anything :P But I don't often have the attention span for full-length films unless I am in a movie theater.

Shows: Star Trek (TNG), Orange is the New Black, Dexter, True Blood, Scandal, Parks and Recreation, The Office, The L Word, Adventure Time, Lost Girl, Legend of Korra/ATLA, Sleepy Hollow, The Walking Dead, Elementaryl, House of Cards, Breaking Bad... the list keeps growing.

Music: Again, I am not very picky. I like stuff ranging from R&B to country to folk punk to classic rock... a few of my favorite bands these days include: Mumford & Sons, Nana Grizol, Defiance Ohio, The Lumineers, Indigo Girls, The Weakerthans, The Mountain Goats.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
internet, affection, sleep, sunshine, birds, humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not I should eat a cheeseburger today. Inter-personal relationships. The state of the world. Sciency things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at home trying to decide what I want to do (because I am indecisive). Then I usually opt to (a) just marathon a TV show or play video games or (b) go out for a beer with friends or maybe have a game night.
You should message me if
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You want to chat, meet for coffee, or whatever. I have a lot of free time lately and am open to conversations.

This especially applies if you are queer, gender-bendy, anti-capitalist, cat-lover, foodie, like nerdy things, and/or outdoorsie person who likes to eat delicious things, play board/video games, and are looking for friends. Or if you're just interested in getting to know me better, I suppose.

I suck at initiating convos. If you'd like to initiate a conversation with me, I respond best to questions.

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