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warblingbear

26 Lafayette, IN Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 22
Orientation
Queer, Pansexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I really hate self-summaries but here goes.

I am a queer trans guy and I live with my long-term partner and our cat-children. I have a degree in Wildlife/Conservation Biology but I'm also interested in working in education. I really enjoy cooking, hiking/being outside, playing board games, traveling (cheaply), playing Skyrim. I am online too much for my own good.

I like interacting with people but I often feel awkward, at least at first.

I am originally from Massachusetts but moved to Lafayette to be with my partner and support them through PhD.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working at an elementary school and loving it! I'm looking into going back to school for a M.S. in Education. I also work various seasonal/temporary field jobs studying bird populations and behavior. In my free time, I volunteer with local LGBTQ and social justice groups.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking (I especially like making elaborate dinners for large amounts of people.) Also, one of my friends told me I make the best fried eggs so there's that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am often wearing some sort of super hero shirt even though I don't read comics as much as I'd like to. I've also heard my eyes/smile/beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like fantasy, sci-fi, and ecology books. Currently re-reading the Animorphs series (lol nostalgia/childhood fave). On my to-read list: Evolution's Rainbow - Joan Roughgarden; Sister Citizen - Melissa Harris-Perry; Redefining Realness - Janet Mock.

Movies: I love suspense-thrillers, horror, super hero blockbusters, cheesy romantic comedies. I don't know, people often think I have bad taste in movies, probably because I will watch anything :P But I don't often have the attention span for full-length films unless I am in a movie theater.

Shows: Legend of Korra/Avatar, The 100, Elementary, Scandal, Parks and Recreation, The Office, Adventure Time, Lost Girl, Sleepy Hollow, House of Cards, Breaking Bad... the list keeps growing.

Music: Again, I am not very picky. I like stuff ranging from R&B to country to folk punk to classic rock... a few of my favorite bands these days include: Mumford & Sons, Nana Grizol, Defiance Ohio, The Lumineers, Indigo Girls, The Weakerthans, The Mountain Goats.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
internet, affection, sleep, sunshine, birds, humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not I should eat a cheeseburger today. Inter-personal relationships. The state of the world. Sciency things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home with my partner or a small group of friends. Playing video games or board games. Sometimes going out to the movies or for drinks.
You should message me if
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You want to chat, meet for coffee, or whatever. I have a lot of free time lately and am open to conversations.

This especially applies if you are queer, anti-capitalist, cat-lover, foodie, like nerdy things, and/or outdoorsie person who likes to eat delicious things, play board/video games, and are looking for friends. Or if you're just interested in getting to know me better, I suppose.

I suck at initiating convos. If you'd like to initiate a conversation with me, I respond best to questions.