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37 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:11pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Tall (-ish), (slightly) dark and (almost) handsome gentleman seeks...

Born & raised in Chicago, lived in NYC for a long time and now I'm here in SF (Manifest Destiny, anyone?).

Some things you should know about me: Sarcasm and a quick wit are the quickest way to my heart. I don't wait for the walk signal to cross the street. I love to laugh. I am a loyal friend. I don't use emoticons. I am ridiculously easy going. I am a passionate music fan. I like the things most straight guys like: a properly cooked steak, watching/playing sports, a stiff drink, and women (not in that order). I love to travel. I love wandering around book and record stores for no particular reason. I am not a "burner". I don't own skinny jeans, Affliction/Ed Hardy clothing, or capri pants. I floss. I appreciate minimalist design and well stocked jukeboxes in bars. I dislike the Marina (the scene not the actual neighborhood). I'm almost always clean-shaven. I like the room WARM. I always order dessert. I say "pop" when I mean soda (it's a Chicago thing).

I'm open minded about trying/exploring new things, whether it's new activities, food, music, places, etc. I'm open to variety.

I believe chemistry and physical attraction are important.

In conclusion: my parents raised me right and my friends would tell you that I'm a down-to-earth guy. I'm just like everyone else: making my way through the world and trying to do it with a modicum of grace.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in finance for a tech company in the South Bay. (Repeat after me: "I am not my job. I am not my job. I am not my job.")

Aside from work, I try to stay fit which really means I go to the gym almost every day. Being fit/eating healthy is a priority for me so it should be for you too. Maybe we can do your favorite workout together (SoulCycle, anyone?) or you can tell me about your favorite running path in the city.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, laughing, keeping my promises, seeing the best in others, consistency, discovering new music/bands, taking fashion cues from Clooney, planning romantic getaways, finding great restaurants, encouraging others, admitting my mistakes and growing from them and never, ever giving up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look younger than my age...I get carded on a semi-regular basis.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I think it would be great if we didn't like EXACTLY the same things and that way we could expose each other to something new. What a concept!?!

Books: I'm a bit of a bookworm and I read non-fiction almost exclusively. Anything by Palahniuk being the one notable exception.

TV: I don't watch a ton of TV but my DVR usually has things like 30 Rock, New Girl, the Sunday morning political shows, Bill Maher. Oh, and Anthony Bourdain is my hero.

Food: I love trying new foods and believe that spending a little extra money on a great meal and wine is one of life's great pleasures.

Music: Music is very important to me but I'm not going to list a thousand bands here. Let's just say that I listen to almost everything and there is almost nothing I won't go see live. Going to "shows" is one of my favorite activities.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(I'll assume we're beyond Maslow and the whole food/water/shelter part of this list)

1. My friends and family.
2. The prepared foods counter at Whole Foods (I would have starved to death years ago).
3. Internet/Books/Music - three way tie!
4. Physical exercise.
5. The Maps app on my iPhone and/or the GPS in my car. (I am severely directionally impaired).
6. A jacket in SF.

Honorable mentions: Sunshine, travel, long hot showers, good coffee, summer music festivals/concerts, chocolate (dark), ESPN, laughter, Tottenham Hotspur FC, Pitchfork, NPR, Sirius/XMU & Alt Nation channels, and The Approval Matrix (
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What and when I am going to eat next?

Whether or not my OkC profile is too long?

Why do people in SF need to wear gloves and heavy coats when the temperature dips below 60 degrees?

How to make sure I can make it to the gym today?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
NOT hanging out at Balboa Cafe. Nuff said...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have never taken a camera phone selfie while half-naked in my bathroom. Shocking, I know.
You should message me if
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If you know who you are and what you want from life. If you have an edge to you. If you can feel special without creating drama. If traveling/exploring new parts of the world is important to you. If you are fun-loving, adventurous and looking for a partner in crime. If exercise/staying fit is important to you. If you are comfortable in your own skin. If you wear heels a lot. If you are thankful for the scars you have and the battles fought/love lost/lessons learned from them. If you're "GGG". If you're ambitious and passionate about your goals. If you're looking for a partner and a best friend but not a crutch.

If any of what you've seen/read here resonates with you. Thanks for reading all of this.