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57 San Diego, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 30
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am drawn to sunshine, wild cats, dance, and sculpture, among so many other things.

I maintain a healthy disregard for authority.

I believe that commitment is for weenies; devotion is where it's really at...

I am Genuine, Feminine, and Loyal.

I say what I mean, and mean what I say.

I trust; then verify.

I am just naïve enough to love life, yet savy enough to know that I don’t have the whole picture (yet).

My goal is harmony; my dream, tenderness.

Are We A Match?
• We find that we connect the dots faster than those around us.
• Fine craftsmanship and quality matter to us more than quantity; in fact, we have ceased accumulating, for the most part.
• Most of the men who find themselves attracted to me are 5’10” or taller. Though I am not a large 5’6”, neither am I petite. I am active enough to stay trim.
• I feel very comfortable in my own skin; likewise, you feel comfortable in yours.
• If you are a regular church / temple goer, we may not appreciate each other at the deepest levels.
• If you have no spiritual interests, you may see me as overly altruistic; I really do enjoy giving back / paying it forward, and it is my fondest desire to do just that for my community, in concert with my life partner.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Leaving drama at the movies and living in harmony with all life
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Assessing options
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Great bone structure and natural, youthful appearance

I recognize that my choice of photos may confound some.
Really, you may ask, why post anything visual if it isn’t very informative? There is a method behind the madness: my clients have staff on this site, and I really don't need the gossip in the boardroom. Sooo… when conversation here begins to click, recent photos are usually exchanged. In an inadvertent way, it has worked to advantage, because, though I assure you I can be as visually motivated as anyone, this way, neither I nor the viewer of my pics find ourselves fixating solely on the physical as we get to know each other a little. I expect that adding this paragraph to my Profile may also help me sift those who are sending me a form letter from those actually reading this Profile *smiling*
For those who share my insatiable curiosity, the first pic was cropped from a larger group-shot, taken while we were racing sailboats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Biographies and Autobiographies
Anything by Faulkner, Austen, Fitzgerald, or Wilde
Conversations with God by Walsch, The Power of Now by Tolle, Most Anything Educational
Movies: Being There, Being John Malkovich,
Rambling Rose, Gentle Thrillers, Movies with a Twist
Videos: TED Conference Vids, 405 The Movie
Music: Classical, DooWop, Opera, Schmaltzy 50s Crooner Music for Dancing, Rock 'n Roll
Food: Lobster, Fresh Oysters, Asian Foods, French Cream
Sauces, Fresh Fruit and Vegetables
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The more active I am, the less I feel attached to any of it...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get from here to there
How to get you from there to here
Merging here and there
Rocket Packs
Quantum Physics
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing or Resting
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am really not of this world
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are:
Gentle and Kind
Smart: Brains are Sexy
Able to Hear and Appreciate Divergent Viewpoints
Financially Responsible
Intentional: I Can Count on You