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65 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Middle Eastern
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For me every moment is an adventure. It's all good, made more so when we're fortunate enough to share it with someone, where we give and receive genuinely, gracefully, finding joy in each other's joy... I am a fun, smart, creative, curious, loving, aware, interesting, very fit and youthful, attractive, accomplished, artistic, fine cook, poetic, sensitive and sensual, articulate man with 65 years of wisdom, and a lust for life who would enjoy meeting a vibrant woman interested in a new friend for an enduring adventure.

These words don't really describe us. It's better to meet naturally, smile, say a few words that lead to a genuine desire to speak and listen and crave for more... Oh the temptations!

Find me and we'll share, perhaps deeply.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying the adventure. What I am doing is not as important as the passion and joy that I do it with. I am grateful to be alive, healthy, and to have the attributes to indulge in so many things with an open mind, heart, body and spirit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things. I've mastered some things in sport, art, cooking, business, empathy and human nature, mostly in unrelated paths where it required decades to reach a pinnacle. That learning now guides me in everything I do. I've discovered that I have a joy for life, a gentle nature with an edge, open, embracing what's in front of me, the people around me, and not being afraid.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Love at first sight... lol. I don't know. Really, my perception of what people first notice has to be some degrees removed from reality. That's too much self absorption. I like to think that the last impression is more important, which hopefully is, I'd like to share more with him. ... We should all have the pleasure and luxury to fantasize... and not be swayed from living out our dreams.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too much to list. Anything that taps the depth of the senses, emotions, mind, and passions. You know, every day living with an edge. Generally I like exquisite food that I/we can make or eat out. Same with books, music, entertainment, simple or complex, but always leaning for delicious. Breathtaking. Willing to risk a flop. Silly and fun is good too, but I strive for being wowed, and give back in kind.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Six things are not enough. I'll take it all. I'll be generous and give most of it away. The things I can't carry I'll leave for others to take. If we didn't have air, food, shelter we'd be dead. So that leaves the things within us that we all have if we're willing to be vulnerable (for me, I'm reaching for total emotional, physical, intellectual, and spiritual vulnerability) ... Love, Beauty, Compassion, Empathy, Adventure, Depth, Creativity, Gratitude, Contemplation... I had to break the six rule. 8 is a better number anyway - reflecting infinity. ... Care to join me for the ride?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Too many things to mention here. I think deeply about a lot of things. It's all good. The one question that is not likely to be answered in human life time is "why?" ... I get closer but the answer is not reachable.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try not to think that far ahead. I am happy to be enjoying the moment... and when Friday evening comes I will enjoy that time too. But if you have thoughts about Friday or other days, I could be enticed to reflection and commitment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Find me and I'll confess. If I'm willing to broadcast it then it's not worthy of being private.
You should message me if
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Just for the hell of it.
Life is a joy and you'd like to share.
You like engaging in deep thought and discourse.
You want to fall madly and passionately in love.
If you like adventure.