Urban-type professional guy here. Been in the area now a little more than three years but still feel pretty new. Keep pretty busy at the office and the gym and running and with occasional travel but still eager to make friends here in the RTP area.
I've very recently realized that I am seeking to develop a life partnership with someone who shares a lot of my same values. That process could take a while.
Until then, I'm just wonderin if there's any one out there who might be interested in just meeting for a cupla drinks or a trip to a museum or a mall and maybe somethin to eat and then go from there, and, as ridiculous as this might sound on a site like this, long term, I’d like to find some one who would just like to just take a walk with me, help me pick out shoes and clothes, go grocery shopping with me, and I’d definitely love having people to vacation with me.
For special occasions, I’d like to have some one who wants to dress me up for Halloween (I don't have very good fashion sense), do a little Christmas shopping with me, watch the Tony Awards with me, and watch fireworks with me on the Fourth of July. I’d like to have some one who would like to see the Nutcracker and Swan Lake with me. I’d actually like to get married some day.
For less special occasions, I'm looking for people who won't pull away from me when I have a cold, for people who are more interested in me than the tv or their handheld device, people who will take a nap with me (maybe it will lead to other things) or maybe just hang around and let me take a nap, and people, who if choose to watch tv while I'm around will at least ask and consider what I might find interesting on tv. Ability and desire to engage in shared decision-making with me and ability and desire to share mutual support are both high on the list for me for long-term relationships.
I like to sit outside in the sun, either for a cup of coffee, breakfast with a friend and a newspaper or two, for drinks and dinner in the evening, or even with a beer at a Friday night Bulls Game with fireworks!
I love to exercise. I exercise a lot. I go to the gym almost every night, once or twice most weekends and also sometimes on weekday mornings. I participate in a morning boot camp. I also take various mind/body/core classes about four times a week so if anybody ever wants to join me for about any kind of exercise, I would love having someone to join me for about any kind of exercise. Also, because I exercise so much, I also eat frequently and in large amounts so if anyone ever wants to join me for something to eat, I would love having someone join me for something to eat!
I also like to have fun. I am always eager to meet other interesting, like-minded people in person for fun, friendship and new experiences especially in the RTP area and other areas where I happen to be traveling for work/fun.
I was travelling a lot for work for a while, but I’m hoping some year to have enough free time to some day compete in a sprint distance triathlon. I still have a lot of preparing to do though. I do like to swim although I’m not particularly good at it. I'd like to find an adult swim class some where nearby. I also have been looking for a local club or group for novice bodybuilders so if any one is aware of a local club or group for novice bodybuilders, please let me know.