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28 San Jose, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:49pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I've cultivated a small artsy life as my father likes to tease. I keep a lovely home, have a nerd job with solid intellectual/philosophical cred and enjoy netflixing on the couch like most people. I like making things-- painting once in a while, cooking often, knitting and sewing to boot-- and hanging with my little dog. To be noted, all with a touch of lush hedonism by nature, intellectual background by background/training matched with the best of the low-brow cultural tastes.

Ideally looking for some combo of Titus Pullo and Mr. Rogers, but that may not be feasible.

role models: Mae West, Dolly Parton, Martha Stewart, Amy Sedaris, bell hooks, Nora Ephron, Joan Didion.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an archivist.

Otherwise, I fill my life by enjoying my late twenties while I still can, making shit (normally sewing, knitting or painting), reading plenty of poetry, and drinking all the cold beers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intuiting what's up with other humans, reading fading copperplate handwriting, typing at the speed of thought without looking at my hands, ruining moments with an awkward joke, maintaining eye contact, creating hedonist food spreads while hostessing, and knitting. (I'm really, really good at knitting.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I've got an easy smile and an even quicker laugh. Plus the dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a. Ulysses, From Here to Eternity, The Power of One, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, A Moveable Feast, Shakespeare's comedies. I've also got a weird soft spot for Agatha Christie. (What can I say, dry murder mysteries just do it for me.) poetry subsection: Self-Portrait in a Convex Mirror, Life Studies, Lunch Poems.

b. In the Loop, Dawn of the Dead, Gosford Park, I Know Where I'm Going, The Women, A Philadelphia Story, Kill Bill Vol 1 & 2, , The Big Lebowski, Clue, Ghostbusters.

c. Game of Thrones, Louie, Veep, Bob's Burgers, American Horror Story (especially Coven and Freak Show), Newsroom, Rome, Deadwood.

d. Lykke Li, Hot Chip, Feist, M.I.A., Brazilian Girls, Beach House, Nick Drake, Vashti Bunyan, Martha and the Vandellas, the Marvelettes, Aretha Franklin, Nina Simone, The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Joy Division, T-Rex, Grateful Dead, Spoon, Wilco, Of Montreal, Sly and the Family Stone, Fiona Apple, James Brown.

e. drinks: Craft beer (mainly IPAs, but I like some variety), g&t/v&t, Moscow Mules, Water, coffee (so. much. coffee.)
foods: AVOCADO, sushi, spicy yellow curry with lots of rice, burritos (I, controversially, prefer Iguanas to La Vics), and mangos. Really sweet/savory combos in general.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. LITTLE DOG. She will steal your goddamned heart unless you are a soulless hell beast.
2. Human interaction
3. Mental stimulation of some sort (I'm fond of books, but even longform will do)
4. Long, lazy brunches (all applicants must have a hearty love of eating and drinking mid-to-late morning after reluctantly managing to drag themselves out of bed)
5. Music!
6. A sense of humor (and the laughter byproduct)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
images from work lingering in my head, interpersonal relationships, knitting math, how it feels to fly on my bike, guessing strangers' back stories.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exploring a new bar, seeing live music, watching a movie with a beer/craft project, on a date, reading a book, or as my father and Hawaiian-Portuguese family would call it "talk story" with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As a child I was trained in dancing the hula.
You should message me if
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You are generous with those you love, funny without always meaning to be, don't cringe from intimacy, are articulate about your passions, and ready to meet a woman who will challenge and support you in equal measure.

Extra points for feminists.