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28 San Jose, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 27–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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You know how in hobo-signs the indicator for a 'kind lady' is a drawing of a cat? I'm kind of like that: flexible symbology, open-hearted living, and travel. I'm generous of spirit and excited about adventures just around the corner. As a child, I was more likely to be described as feisty firebrand (much a fan of "speak softly but carry a big stick") but have mellowed with age to solid pragmatism with belief in social justice and living a good, simple life ("so it goes").
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an archivist.

Otherwise, I fill my life by enjoying my late twenties while I still can, making shit (normally sewing, knitting or painting), reading plenty of poetry, and drinking all the cold beers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intuiting what's up with other humans, reading fading copperplate handwriting, typing at the speed of thought without looking at my hands, ruining moments with an awkward joke, maintaining eye contact, creating hedonist food spreads while hostessing, and knitting. (I'm really, really good at knitting.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I've got an easy smile and an even quicker laugh. Plus the dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a. Ulysses, From Here to Eternity, The Power of One, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, A Moveable Feast, Shakespeare's comedies. I've also got a weird soft spot for Agatha Christie. (What can I say, dry murder mysteries just do it for me.) poetry subsection: Self-Portrait in a Convex Mirror, Life Studies, Lunch Poems.

b. In the Loop, Dawn of the Dead, Gosford Park, I Know Where I'm Going, The Women, A Philadelphia Story, Kill Bill Vol 1 & 2, , The Big Lebowski, Clue, Ghostbusters.

c. Game of Thrones, Louie, Veep, Bob's Burgers, American Horror Story (especially Coven and Freak Show), Newsroom, Rome, Deadwood.

d. Lykke Li, Hot Chip, Feist, M.I.A., Brazilian Girls, Beach House, Nick Drake, Vashti Bunyan, Martha and the Vandellas, the Marvelettes, Aretha Franklin, Nina Simone, The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Joy Division, T-Rex, Grateful Dead, Spoon, Wilco, Of Montreal, Sly and the Family Stone, Fiona Apple, James Brown.

e. drinks: Craft beer (mainly IPAs, but I like some variety), g&t/v&t, Moscow Mules, Water, coffee (so. much. coffee.)
foods: AVOCADO, sushi, spicy yellow curry with lots of rice, burritos (I, controversially, prefer Iguanas to La Vics), and mangos. Really sweet/savory combos in general.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. LITTLE DOG. She will steal your goddamned heart unless you are a soulless hell beast.
2. Human interaction
3. Mental stimulation of some sort (I'm fond of books, but even longform will do)
4. Long, lazy brunches (all applicants must have a hearty love of eating and drinking mid-to-late morning after reluctantly managing to drag themselves out of bed)
5. Music!
6. A sense of humor (and the laughter byproduct)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
images from work lingering in my head, interpersonal relationships, knitting math, how it feels to fly on my bike, guessing strangers' back stories.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exploring a new bar, seeing live music, watching a movie with a beer/craft project, on a date, reading a book, or as my father and Hawaiian-Portuguese family would call it "talk story" with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As a child I was trained in dancing the hula.
You should message me if
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You are generous with those you love, funny without always meaning to be, don't cringe from intimacy, are articulate about your passions, and ready to meet a woman who will challenge and support you in equal measure.

Extra points for feminists.