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28 F San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:35pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I believe in a fundamental generosity of spirit which includes being awkwardly gregarious with strangers. For the general record, I'm only outdoorsy in that I like drinking on patios, but I can be coaxed by enthusiasm for nature via low-key trails. Also yes cropped my hair off--tuff nougies dudes. Still as charismatic and sweet tempered.

I'm particularly fond of films, books, and the color chartreuse. Other likes include fluid symbolism, touching things with bare hands, and my little dog.

role models: Mae West, Dolly Parton, Martha Stewart, Amy Sedaris, bell hooks, Nora Ephron, Joan Didion.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an archivist.

Otherwise, I fill my life by enjoying my late twenties while I still can, making shit (normally sewing, knitting or painting), reading plenty of poetry, and drinking all the cold beers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intuiting what's up with other humans, reading fading copperplate handwriting, typing at the speed of thought without looking at my hands, ruining moments with an awkward joke, maintaining eye contact, creating hedonist food spreads while hostessing, and knitting (I'm really, really good at knitting).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I've got an easy smile and an even quicker laugh. Plus the dimples.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. LITTLE DOG. She will steal your goddamned heart unless you are a soulless hell beast.
2. Human interaction
3. Mental stimulation of some sort (I'm fond of books, but even longform will do)
4. Long, lazy brunches (all applicants must have a hearty love of eating and drinking mid-to-late morning after reluctantly managing to drag themselves out of bed)
5. Music!
6. A sense of humor (and the laughter byproduct)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
images from work lingering in my head, interpersonal relationships, knitting math, how it feels to fly on my bike, guessing strangers' back stories.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exploring a new bar, seeing live music, watching a movie with a beer/craft project, on a date, reading a book, or as my father and Hawaiian-Portuguese family would call it "talk story" with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
As a child I was trained to dance the hula.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are generous with those you love, funny without always meaning to be, don't cringe from intimacy, are articulate about your passions, and ready to meet a woman who will challenge and support you in equal measure.

Your response to my profile is "Fuck Yes" and you are willing to subscribe to this dating rhetoric:

Extra points for feminists.