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22 F Wichita, KS

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:12pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Alright...first thing's first, my name's Melinda, Mel for short. I'm kind of shy and maybe a bit awkward at first. I get along with small groups of people better than big ones, especially when I'm first meeting people.

I get way too interested in narrow subjects. Ask me about certain cult films I love, actors, directors, bands, books, authors, comic books, I could tell you loads, I'd talk for hours and you'd probably think I was annoying as hell when it was all said and done with. I have a fondness for anything misunderstood, occult, frowned upon, misjudged, you get the picture. If there's a reason why others shy away from something, I want to know what it is and understand it. I can't stand ignorance and we're not talking "I dropped out of school and I'm not booksmart" I mean I cannot stand ignorant people. Stupid people. People who judge others for things beyond their control, or hate something they don't understand, I cannot stand true ignorance. I love random bands and cult films. I love musicals of all kinds, but if you throw in a goth flavor I'll probably fall in love with it. I love vampire novels and films and we're not talking Twilight.

I'm way obsessed with Batman. I don't read comic books though, but that's mainly because I don't know where to start and it'd be one more thing I became ridiculously obsessed with.

I'm originally from right here in Wichita, but I moved when I was twelve to Indiana and then moved back when I turned 18. I love being around my family, they are a huge part of my life.

I love to travel, I spent three weeks in England in March of 2009, I'd love to go back, but my dream vacation destination is Finland.

I'm one of the most open minded people I know, so if you're not, please don't message me. I'm not religious, but I love learning about different religions. I can't stand people who try to shove their religion (Christianity) down my throat, that's one of the easiest ways to piss me off.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently got out of a serious relationship and am in the process of getting out of the lease and getting my own place again. Being cheated on is the worst. I'm an assistant bakery manager at the 13th and Tyler Dillons.
I’m really good at
Dodging topics I don't want to talk about.
Making an ass of myself.
Rambling for ages about something only I care about.
Learning vast amounts of information about anything that catches my attention.
Listening, if I care enough too.
Doing something "for a few minutes," and realizing it's been hours.
Writing, or I used to be.
Photography, or I'd like to think so.
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses are green.
Green eyes.
I'm top heavy, very much so, so if I catch you staring once is fine, more than that and you'll get slapped.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I could go on about this kind of stuff forever.

Authors: Anne Rice, Bram Stoker, Charlaine Harris, Christopher Paolini, Edgar Allan Poe, George Orwell, H.G. Wells, J.K. Rowling, Oscar Wilde
I'm guessing the stuff I like by them is pretty standard, I read a lot though.

Anime: Not a lot here, but some. Desert Punk, Elfen Lied, Karin, Rosario + Vampire, Strawberry Panic!

Movies: I like so many, I'm a huge movie buff, I rather enjoy superhero movies, vampire films, and musicals, but don't let that fool you, I have so many favorites listing is pointless.

Television: I do have a fondness for television series, but I don't really follow many, I'll find something I like, download and absorb when I have a spare bit of time to have myself a marathon. This is best with friends. Here's what I enjoy and I have many guilty pleasures. Being Human, Big Bang Theory, Deadliest Warrior, Dexter, Doctor Who, Drawn Together, Futurama, Glee, Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares, How I Met Your Mother Gossip Girl, Hex, House, Jackass, the L Word, Nip/Tuck, Prison Break, Sarah Silverman Program, Scrubs, the Secret Diary of A Call Girl, Skins, Torchwood, the Tudors, True Blood, Viva La Bam, Wildboyz

Music: Rather big music fan, but who isn't to some extent, I'll listen to anything. I'm hesitant about rap, but I try and find something from every genre that I can enjoy. I love concerts, but haven't been to many, thought that will change this summer.
Aiden, William Control, HIM, Shakira, The Used, My Chemical Romance, The 69 Eyes, The Doors, Ozzy Osbourne, Queen, Lacuna Coil, Dommin, Taking Back Sunday, Coheed & Cambria, System of A Down, Mute Math, Nine Inch Nails, CKY, Elvis, Cradle of Filth, Daniel Lioneye, The Sounds, Wednesday 13, Murderdolls, The Cure, Creature Feature, Morrissey, The Smiths, Misfits

Food: I'm the pickiest eater.
The six things I could never do without
1) A job.
2) My dad. He's the only person who has always been there for me and now I'm 14 hours away.
3) Computer/Internet. What can I say, I like my laptop.
4) Music and movies. I'm very passionate about the things that interest me, so being without them would be very difficult.
5) Books. I read a lot as well, I'm pretty self entertained most of the time.
6) Batman.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Religion, traveling, music, films, examining the past to learn from my mistakes, the people closest to me, anything occult, wondering about the first impression I make on people, funny things that happened in the past which often leads to me randomly laughing at inappropriate times, time travel, the random things I get way too interested in. Future tattoos that I plan on getting. Batman.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well if I'm not working...spending time with family/friends. Maybe catching a movie or going to a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been burned in the past so I tend to stand a bit farther from the flames, you'll have to work if you want to get to know me any deeper than the surface. I've been told I say I love you too much. Don't bother if that is a problem. I talk about work a lot. I love my job and I'm full time management, it is very important to me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–27
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Deal Breakers

You've cheated in a past relationship, you only want sex, you do not want to date a smoker (cigarettes), you don't like tattoos or piercings, you're against gay marriage, you are closed minded, you're of an orthodox religion, you have kids, you don't want a committed relationship, you drink most nights

Deal Makers

You have a job, a car, your own place. Long hair, tattoos, piercings, smoker, we have similar music/movie tastes, you're looking for something real, you like to laugh

Because this was a problem in my most recent relationship: I am female and when I am on my period I get moody, emotional, and a little bitchy. This is hormones it is not your fault, DO NOT tell me that my period is not an excuse. I get one every three months it's not that fucking bad to just ignore me for a week.