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  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 5:04pm
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
My self-summary
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Perhaps I was a fish in another life: I’m addicted to water. Not in a totally dramatic, or shocking way, but I started swimming at an early age and since then I’ve been hooked. Two summers ago, I even took lessons on how to paddle through it (white water kayak and SUP).

On dry land (and during the winter months) I am becoming quite the rock climber. Not a bad way to get over my fear of heights! The world definitely looks different from 30 feet up. When I need a break from all this physical activity, live music is always an awesome choice. I gravitate towards certain genres, but am always open to new sounds.

I work with kids for a living, and my profession and personal experiences have made me acutely aware of life’s brevity. So I consciously strive to maintain an identity that is not tied to my job.

Friends and colleagues describe me as very caring, patient, and honest, but I rely heavily on dry humor to balance my serious side.

Who I want to meet: A personable, active, guy with intellectual curiosity. Someone who respects other people and the planet. And is making a valid attempt at that work-life balance thing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to find time to see more live music, view an interesting exhibit, explore a new neighborhood
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making friends with all sorts of people, and helping those friends find and develop their strengths.

Imagining the possibilities...of a trip to Malaysia or a next career move.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People notice that I'm thoughtful and inquisitive. And my terrific smile. However, I'm curious to find out what you think!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This is a little nerdy, but after the recent Higgs Boson discovery, I am trying again to get through The Elegant Universe by Brian Greene. Which I started about 10+ years ago ;).

Recent less educational readings: The Book Thief, Little Bee, The Help, The Art of Racing in the Rain, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, Wild

Recent live shows include The Lumineers, Kingsley Flood, Frightened Rabbit, and Black Rebel Motorcycle Club. I'm always up for expanding my musical horizons!

TV: Orange is the New Black. Plus other Netflix shows now that I've cut the cable cord and my Roku is operational!

Foods I like: Italian and southern Asian are favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
grasshopper pie
family and friends
body of water
warm summer days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
health care, what's for dinner :), politics, wishing I had a 3 day work week, how I and the people I care about can be happier.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing any number of things, like trying a new activity, a night out with friends, or curling up on the couch.
You should message me if
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You are a healthy, non-smoking, fun-loving, guy who fits the above description!