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58 F Alameda, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 46–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Highly burning soul...if the windows of your soul are open, I'll see you....the unbearable likeness of being.
Well, I may not see you as I don't participate in the "A-List" feature... AND BTW--no picture of you, no howdy from me... so all of you closeted non-pic sharing folks, either give it up or come clean with whoever you are hiding from :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm into the 3 S's swimming, scuba diving, and sailing (any boating).
Confession of a tiny sailboat owner---I volunteered many water hours this past year on fast, powered boats and I have to admit...loved those airborne moments.
Well traveled.
"Shade tree" musician (classically trained back in the day)....enjoying drum circles these days.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading the energy in people
being clear
yin and yanging
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love to read...current pile is about 10 deep.
Last book that left me buzzing was recommended by an expat friend "Shantaram". Wow! How lucky was I! And that's how the book magic goes for me...
Finally got to see one of my all time favs speak...John Irving...guess which book I re-bought?
Yup, I watch some TV... "Justified" takes me back to the days when I roamed the Appalachian mountains in Kentucky and Tennessee and did grass roots organizing with the coal miners. "The Newsroom" is actually intellectual..."Homeland"...powerful...never thought TV would show a realistic execution...even left me freaked. "Modern Family"...Al Bundy is back. And first few seasons of "Big Bang"....I couldn't stop laughing...
And in the silence of BART I shamelessly laugh out loud listening to "Wait Wait, Don't Tell Me."
The joke about "movies and me"---Unless really absorbing, I tend to remember the sound score better than the movie itself....first cerebral realization...Fistful of Dollars...knocked me out! Bought the sound score the next day.
Haven't missed a U2 concert in 25 years...2015 tour coming soon. See ya there!
Food---- I'm known for my umgahwhaaaaa! "Feed me Seymore!" Life is too short to be picky about food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sweet and thoughtful people
never being without something to read
dancing to good tunes
international travel
my independence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The purpose of "our" existence.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To you and oh yes, the other zillion people on the net.....?! I have a purple toothbrush, today. The color will probably change in 3 months. Don't hold me to it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a well grounded responsive soul who likes to push the envelope of life. Willing to be adventuresome and has an interest in one of my activities. You would be willing to share some of your activities that are different then mine. And you are self-sufficient financially....meaning I work, you do too...or whatever that equates out to for you to be able to hold your own.