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59 F Takoma Park, MD

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Last Online
Yesterday – 4:36pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
water baby most at home on, in, or near water. Love exploring the world in a kayak, riding whitecaps or poking around marshes (leading to several alligator adventures...)

cajun, zydeco, Scandinavian, waltz, contra, swing... Scandi is tricky & makes me dizzy, yet I persist. Dancing friends are among my dearest. One day I'll work on my tango.

In general...
slender, energetic & physically fit. Somewhat pensive, generally positive; tenaciously creative & resourceful. Politically progressive, spiritually & intellectually curious, emotionally tender. And quite handy. Recent restorations include a Duncan Phyfe tilt-top table, a mechanics toolbox & an alarm clock.

Other interests include...
theatre, ballet, concerts, opera -- from banjo to Bartok. Wowed (& might be wooed?) by fiddle/violin; Strauss waltz to Irish jig, sinuous Scandinavian folkdance to rollicking country hoedown. Gardening, for pleasure, beauty, fresh air & fresh edibles. Long walks, vigorous hikes & aimless ambles. Also cycling, camping (esp. music & dance camps) ...and skipping.

What I'm looking for...
a companion, playmate, lover, confidante & partner. Someone with whom to discover the opportunities in the circumstances life tosses at us & weather storms as they arise. The one who knows just how I like my coffee & love to be held when I sleep; who knows & honors my secrets & entrusts his with me. The man I come home to & comes home to me. The one man that I yearn for, who makes me smile... and hears the smile in my voice when we're apart. A dancer -- or willing to learn.
What I’m doing with my life
Self-employed, I provide eco-friendly interior styling & staging for homes and businesses. I solve puzzles & create places that make people feel happy & productive.

...and dancing, gardening, meditative walks, leisurely paddles, cooking & feasting & creating "home"...
I’m really good at
Discovering and creating possibility & beauty -- whether it's a tough situation, a bruised heart (or ego), a bedraggled plant or a scuffed-up piece of furniture. And I'm a pretty accomplished cook. Enticing, healthful, celebratory meals are important to me & something I love to share.
The first things people usually notice about me
probably my eyes & my smile (at least that's what I'm told)
My seemingly random use of ampersands?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Louie Armstrong singing "What a Wonderful World"
Strauss waltzes (preferably while dancing)
Curly Taylor & Zydeco Trouble
Bluegrass & Barn Dances
Old Jimmy Stewart movies
The Normal Heart
Hello Dolly with Carol Channing
"Little Bee"
"Glass, Paper, Beans"
"Water for Elephants"
"Garden Spells"
Fresh home-grown veggies
New finds from the farmers market
Mango black tea
Cafe Au Lait -- made with almond milk
Dark sweet cherries
Handmade chocolates....
The six things I could never do without
* my family
* dancing shoes & dancing friends
* meditation practice & sangha
* reading & reference books
* long walks in the sunshine... or cool of the evening
* tools - garden tools, hand tools, power tools, kitchen tools...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why I spend so much energy thinking...
On a typical Friday night I am
dancing or curled up with a good book... and open to suggestions!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I keep a pitchfork in my kitchen.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You yearn for the woman who will light up your life -- for the rest of your life. You think I just might possibly be that woman. You are willing to explore a friendship and see if it leads to more.