I am ethically non monogamous and at the moment I am mostly looking for a primary partner. I will happily go on dates with nice people who are partnered, but I feel most excited about finding people who do not have a primary partner already in their lives (or who want to discuss the complex moral and ethical implications of "primary/secondary" relationships). I am not trying to use polyamory to avoid having serious relationships. I believe that having some freedom to continue to explore strengthens relationships over time.
I am also much more amorously-inclined toward women than men, so if you are a lovely man looking for a serious boyfriend I am probably not your guy.
When I say that I am serious about an "other" religion what I mean is that I am a big old witch and a faerie. Just in case you were like "OMG is he a Mormon or something?!" A trans Mormon really would be something, but no.
Oh yeah, I'm trans. I look like a man, and in many ways I am, but I am also a butch and a person with female experience. Shit is complicated. Isn't it always?