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27 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 27
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Working on masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love living things. I get along with most people, as long as they aren't vehemently oppressive dirt bags (though I hang best with other activists and queers). I'm going into medicine, specifically social justice medicine, and I spend lots of my time thinking, talking about, planning or executing various kinds of activism. I also like to cuddle.

I would prefer to be in more real relationships, with the intent being something more like long-termness. I find that relationships, whether they are friendships or romantic partnerships, take on more depth and meaning with time. As I have gotten older I have lost patience for dramatic exits. I might also be a bit of a romantic. That being said, I am also young and want to explore people/the world as much as possible, so various kinds of relationships are appealing.

I am not into monogamy. I like to have sex and/or romance with various people, and I never lie to anyone. Sex and love are not finite resources.

P.S. I'm trans. If you don't know what that means or think "ew!" then we won't work out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
healing all of the shit ever.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people, books, and subtext
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-My plugs (no, they don't hurt)
-my man-esque appearance
-that I say insightful things about social justice and stuff
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: House of Leaves (Danielewski), The Perks of Being a Wallflower (Chbosky), The Ethical Slut (Easton and Hardy), Radical Ecstacy (Easton and Hardy), Evolutionary Witchcraft (T. Thorne Coyle), Globalize Liberation (Solnit et. al.), Stone Butch Blues (Feinberg), Whipping Girl (serano), Hart Crane's "The Bridge", Moby-Dick (Melville), The Forever War(Haldeman), Song of Solomon (Morrison), Exiles (Rawn), Bone Black (hooks), The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity and Love (hooks), New and Old Wars (Kaldor), Abolition Democracy (Davis), Sons of the Goddess (Penczak), Palestine (Sacco), Women Building Peace (Anderlini), Their Eyes Were Watching God (Hurston), Razor Wire Pubic Hair (Mellick), Secret Survivors (Blume) (though it's hideously problematic), Nature's Numbers (Sewart), The Missing Piece and the Big O (Silverstein), Inviting Silence (Norris), Transgender Warriors (Feinberg), Public Sex (Califa), a people's history of the united states (zinn), a different mirror (takaki), east of the sun and west of the moon (mayer), Debt: The First 5,000 Years (Graeber)

Music: Everything ever. Really. Examples Include: Brand New, Bjork, Alanis Morissette, Circa Survive, Delerium, Mediaeval Baebes, U2, Blackstar, Patrick Wolf, Lydia, Invincible, Suzanne Vega, Tori Amos, Kylie Minogue, Sleater-Kinney, Thrice, Dredge, Pelican, Mastodon, Kaki King, Tegan and Sara, Leigh Nash, Bonobo, Emancipator, The Roots, etc

Movies: Shortbus, V for Vendetta, Mean Girls, But I'm a Cheerleader!, Frida, Garden State, White Oleander, Latter Days, Southland Tales, Adaptation, Bring it On, Bound, Run Lola Run

TV: Buffy! Angel, Dollhouse, Battlestar Galactica, Xena, Archer

Food: I like most food, I'm not gonna lie. I have been vegetarian and vegan at various times, and now I love to eat animals. Boycotting animal eating will not end industrial capitalism, it turns out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Books, Sex, Magic, Music, Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to build powerful coalitions to get shit done, how life feels for other people, how people feel about their bodies, sex, how to communicate effectively, praxis in general
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
talking with friends, on a date, dancing, or hiding in my room with a book and/or the internet (honestly mostly the last one)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am into women who capitalize their D's.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to. No matter who you are, us dating will be really fucking queer. If you're down for that, then we'll get along just fine.

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