My situation is a little outside the norm, so bear with me.
I'm transgender and damn proud of it. If that is a problem for you, that's ok, but maybe message someone else.
I'm poly, but not seeing anyone seriously at the moment. I was happily monogamous for many years.
I like Kink. It is not a requirement, but it would be a huge plus. I'm 100% sub and interested in finding someone that is interested in all that comes with that. My FetLife profile is xCette.
I have two smart, polite, well behaved, adorable kids. I'm not looking for another parent in any way, but be aware that they are part of the deal.
I'm up front and honest all the time. I don't BS or play games, life's to short for that. I avoid drama and I'm not one to hide things from people.