The first portion of my profile is Forthright and to the point - After that, the remaining is honest as well, though I view it as frosting, a bit of ego, mixed in with what most people write about -
I would very much like to be in love, there is no more wonderful a feeling in life for me like "Love" - I have experienced it, and I know it takes time - My flaws have been obvious, at least to me when I meet someone - I act as though it's an interview and I am compelled to give an abbreviated auto-biography, and at some level seek one in return - At that point I sometimes think; "Okay, now that I know you and you know me, let's sleep together and find out if we are connected" in that one of so many specific intimate fashions -That's loco in the coco, and I know it - I think if we were connected by another person rather than meeting in space it would be different - If "Joe" (someone we both know and trust) told me you are a good woman and he told you I am a good man, the slow, smooth, natural process of taking time to get to know you and you me would more likely be there which I believe is more natural - At least that's what I know from the dating scene long ago - That written, if we meet, and I need a reminder, please let me know as soon as you spot it - I will try to avoid that kind of introduction as well - Okay, that's the one and largest hole in my other than that quite small Swiss cheesy soul - I listen well, though also at times the normal anxiety of meeting you causes me to talk too much - This isn't an indictment or self deprecating admission by any stretch, just the truth ma'am, just the truth !
It also seems to be that many women I have met are fear-based, which I also can be - Not the "fear" of sitting across from Jeff Dahlmer, (though there have been a few, and I too have felt at times like I was eye to eye with Aileen Wournos, or a spy from the KBG), the fear of trusting a stranger with even basic general information about themselves, including things they like and dislike - This could be a result of many legitimate past experiences, and I respect that - Though when I feel like I'm pulling teeth it does make me wonder how long, if ever, it will take for her to let her guard down, and normally, I lose interest - I know there is a balance in this somewhere though I have challenges finding it - I sometimes feel like I have been on more meet and greets that have turned in to one and done than Bayer has aspirin - This is not true because I have met several truly kind and good females in the past, and I have to remember that the common denominator in all of this ................is Me!
And also, I have to more often accept the truth, which is bells and fireworks do not have to ring and explode immediately for there to quite probably exist something more over time -
Below is also true, though the themes are what many people express:
Looking for; Honest, loyal, takes care of herself, dependable, good spirit, kind heart. affectionate -
I hope you are well and sincerely seeking a good man
I am pleasant to be around and you can figure on feeling great and laughing most of the time. I'm very affectionate, loyal to a fault, and trustworthy.- I'm secure financially, emotionally, and spiritually, though not religious - Not a fan of dating sites though not a "party" person so, here I am -
If you are a sincere, affectionate, and honest woman, please contact me, otherwise, not so much.
I am Honest, funny, kind, generous, charming and more -
I like outside stuff, travel, and would love to go just about anywhere with the right woman - Hole in the wall restaurants, fine dining, and movies make for a nice night out as does dancing to good music or listening to same - -
Much prefer to "talk" and meet to see if there's a connection than email/text endlessly -
May all of us find who we seek -