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63 Troy, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 43–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:00am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
January, 2015 - A Happy Healthy New Year To You !!

The first portion of my profile is direct and to the point - After that, the remaining is honest as well, though I view it as frosting, a bit of ego, mixed in with what most people write about -

I would very much like to be in love, there is no more wonderful a feeling in life for me like "Love" - I have experienced it, and I know it takes time - My flaws have been obvious, at least to me when I meet someone - I act as though it's an interview and I am compelled to give an abbreviated auto-biography, and at some level seek one in return - At that point I sometimes think; "Okay, now that I know you and you know me, let's sleep together and find out if we are connected" in that one of so many specific intimate fashions -That's loco in the coco, and I know it - I think if we were connected by another person rather than meeting in space it would be different - If "Joe" (someone we both know and trust) told me you are a good woman and he told you I am a good man, the slow, smooth, natural process of taking time to get to know you and you me would more likely be there which I believe is more natural - At least that's what I know from the dating scene long ago - That written, if we meet, and I need a reminder, please let me know as soon as you spot it - I will try to avoid that kind of introduction as well - Okay, that's the one and largest hole in my other than that quite small Swiss cheesy soul - I listen well, though also at times the normal anxiety of meeting you causes me to talk too much - This isn't an indictment or self deprecating admission by any stretch, just the truth ma'am, just the truth !

It also seems to be that many women I have met are fear-based, which I also can be - Not the "fear" of sitting across from Jeff Dahlmer, (though there have been a few, and I too have felt at times like I was eye to eye with Aileen Wournos, or a spy from the KBG), the fear of trusting a stranger with even basic general information about themselves, including things they like and dislike - This could be a result of many legitimate past experiences, and I respect that - Though when I feel like I'm pulling teeth it does make me wonder how long, if ever, it will take for her to let her guard down, and normally, I lose interest - I know there is a balance in this somewhere though I have challenges finding it - I sometimes feel like I have been on more meet and greets that have turned in to one and done than Bayer has aspirin - This is not true because I have met several truly kind and good females in the past, and I have to remember that the common denominator in all of this Me!
And also, I have to more often accept the truth, which is bells and fireworks do not have to ring and explode immediately for there to quite probably exist something more over time -

Below is also true, though the themes are what many people express:

Looking for; Honest, loyal, takes care of herself, dependable, good spirit, kind heart. affectionate -

I hope you are well and sincerely seeking a good man

I am pleasant to be around and you can figure on feeling great and laughing most of the time. I'm very affectionate, loyal to a fault, and trustworthy.- I'm secure financially, emotionally, and spiritually, though not religious - Not a fan of dating sites though not a "party" person so, here I am -

If you are a sincere, affectionate, and honest woman, please contact me, otherwise, not so much.

I am Honest, funny, kind, generous, charming and more -

I like outside stuff, travel, and would love to go just about anywhere with the right woman - Hole in the wall restaurants, fine dining, and movies make for a nice night out as does dancing to good music or listening to same - -

Much prefer to "talk" and meet to see if there's a connection than email/text endlessly -

May all of us find who we seek -
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am also flexible with my time. I work a little, play a little, and love a lot!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating and making people comfortable being exactly who they are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am honest, trustworthy, respectful, and kind - Also making people feel at ease, my blue eyes, and bright smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
To many to list - I love reading, movies, most music, and most food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, love, laughter, faith, people, and sunny weather!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why it is so challenging to meet a woman who I connect with ??
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At an event, movie, dinner, and usually laughing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an eternal optimist.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not a player/gamer or big drinker, and ARE honest, kind, and sincere !