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  • Ages 57–67
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Aug 9
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Born and raised in NJ. Schooled and worked in NYC. 35+ years in Chicago and now, Los Angeles. 35 years in publishing in NYC and Chicago.

Have a daughter and son -- 16-year old twins -- who live with their mom and sometimes with me. They teach me about love, humility, pride, worry and, mostly, patience!!

Like to hike, read, work out, dine out, see movies/plays/comedy, do museums, etc.; but please note, cooking is not included in that "etc." Also, these are things I like, it doesn't mean I do them all all the time. Love to laugh and see others laugh as well. Don't play golf or watch TV; nope, not even Orange is the New Black. Also like photography, taking/editing/viewing photos; but don't do it nearly as much as I'd like. Consider myself to be honest, caring, generous, curious, smart, funny, sensual, blah, blah, blah, although I'm a little biased here. But I do try hard at these qualities and manage to achieve one or two of them every once in a while sometimes.

Am in good shape (the result of many mindless hours in the gym) and fortunate to look and act much younger than my age. Not religious at all, but meditate when I remember, and believe in karma and the power of love. Among the many simple pleasures I enjoy are chocolate-dipped vanilla ice cream cones at Dairy Queen and New York Times crosswords on Sunday mornings, with a cup of coffee in one hand and a pencil in the other. On the top of the list of the more sophisticated pleasures I enjoy is ... hmm, think I'll save that one for later.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to grow intellectually and spiritually, but not corporeally. Also, try to improve what I touch -- people, places, things -- or, at least, not make them any worse. Being a good dad. Staying healthy, like working out a lot, eating kale and stuff. I’ve accomplished some things. I’ve also experienced enough to understand what is truly important in this life -- MONEY, POWER and SEX (jk!!). It seems to be about people, principles and simple pleasures, at least for me. I think I've done some good, albeit, not on a global scale, but good nonetheless. Although I’m content to go it alone, I know life could be richer with another person, the right person. And, searching for that person is another thing I’m doing with my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't know. Listening, I guess. Being there for people. Being a dad. Punctuation. NY Times Sunday crosswords. Photography. I'm sure there are many, many other things, but after three hours of trying to come up another one, this is it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People usually don't notice me. Kidding. My smile, I think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Generally like movies, books and music that are positive. Books -- as an English major and former publisher, I love books, all books, but lately am into short stories and novels, plus titles on spirituality, psychology and the human mind. Movies -- all-time favorite is South Pacific. Don't know why, maybe it's the great songs like "I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Outta My Hair" or "I'm as Corny as Kansas in August." I don't know. A close second is Bridge on the River Kwai. Hmm ... both are WWII movies. Don't know what that's about. Also like small indie/foreign films (was a Truffaut addict in the Sixties during my pseudo-intellectual, auteur-worshipping college days). Also enjoy an intelligent romantic comedy. Don't like horror or violence. Music -- am partial to female vocalists -- Lisa Stanfield, Sia, Adele, Sheryl Crow, Amy Grant, etc. I like classic rock (60's, 70's and 80's). Also love the old standards. Linda Ronstadt's "'Round Midnight" is a favorite album; but I have to be in a good place to listen to it. Food -- like all kinds and eat just about everything, but tend to eat healthy on a daily basis.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Excepting all the obvious ones like air, water, food, health, my kids, friends, etc., it would be laughter, exercise, books, camera/computer, love and physical intimacy (ok, sex).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human behavior, global and local. People continually amaze me in both good and bad ways. Also, think about my kids a lot, like about what they'll be saying to their therapists about me when they're adults and hoping they'll be kinder than I was about mine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Keeping busy at home editing photos, just hanging out, doing something with the kids or out with a friend(s).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's in those okcupid questions I answered!!
You should message me if
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you can relate to the above.