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26 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:50am
Native American, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I feel kind of pigeonholed by "male bisexual single", and would given the opportunity identify more as, err, nonbinary demisexual? Yeah. Something like that.

I have hangups of more varieties than I can count, and I spent most of my adolescence running away, and most of my adulthood grappling with my identity. Level ground is elusive.

I'm getting there, though. Step at a time.
What I’m doing with my life
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Running the show at a small kayaking company in Seattle. I guide, schedule, and plan tours. I also handle all the things larger companies have lawyers on retainer for, like tracking down statutes and trying to make sure we're not being scammed.

...and occasionally writing the beginnings of stories that I never seem to be able to finish. I guess I don't like endings much.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making cold-process soap. Baking. Kayaking. Falling a little in love with everyone who smiles at me. Regretting falling a little in love with everyone who smiles at me. Witty banter that only makes sense to 4% of the population. Dancing badly. Tag.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I sing often, not always well, not always comprehensibly. I sometimes hike glaciers barefoot. I am physically very warm. I have trouble talking around other people. I often smell like clove oil.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books? I adore C.J. Cherryh, Ursula K. LeGuin, Paula Volsky, Tanith Lee, Octavia Butler, Paolo Bacigalupi, Sherri Tepper, Neil Gaiman... too many others to list. I read a lot. I have a love affair with scifi and speculative fiction.

TV and movies... hn. Adventure Time. Pushing Daisies. Justice League. Most things Lauren Faust has worked on. Battlestar Galactica. The one with Katee Sackhoff, not Dirk Benedict. Anything by Hayao Miyazaki. Kino's Journey. Most of the Marvel Cinematic Universe. Pan's Labyrinth. Pacific Rim. Scott Pilgrim. Fantastic Mr. Fox. I'm a little all over the place.

Aaaaaand it's harder to find music I don't enjoy than music I do. Broad tastes. Current roundup includes some mix of Devon Sproule, Vocaloid-led jpop, G-Dragon, and Tom Waits.

...and I'm an unrepentant foodie with very broad tastes, but I have a soft place for good falafel and spanakopita. And bao.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Musical instruments to play badly. Rainy nights. Tea. A working kitchen. Scarves. Interesting essential oils.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Imaginary worlds and fantastic voyages and stories about people who never were. And how to make them come to life.

I also spend a lot of time thinking about talking to people or messaging people or having feelings about people, but not actually talking/messaging/addressing them, because shyness can be crippling. I'm working on that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking something simple. Or something less simple if I am going to be around people. Making soap. Singing something by the Decemberists. Hiding under a blanket.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm afraid of people. Terrified of people, even. But I wish I wasn't.
You should message me if
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You'd like to talk, or meet for tea or ramen, or bake something, or make a batch of soap. Or anything else, really.

...and it won't bother you that I'm neurotic and twitchy around people, even the people I really like.