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25 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi men
  • Ages 19–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
Native American, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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In my heart, I'm always in Colorado. I just don't want to be there so much in my body.

I spent a lot of my adolescence running away, and a lot of my adulthood grappling with my identity. I'm finding level ground. Slowly, slowly. But finding it nonetheless!

I feel kind of pigeonholed by "male bisexual single", and would given the opportunity identify more as, err, nonbinary demisexual? Yeah. Something like that.

When all else fails, there's always music and Doctor Who. What else does one really need?
What I’m doing with my life
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I've gone all-in on sea kayaking as a profession. I guide, schedule, and plan tours for a small kayaking company in Seattle. Not exactly where I saw myself being ten years ago, but I guess being on the water was always in my blood.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making cold-process soap. Baking. Kayaking. Falling madly in love with every kitty I encounter on the sidewalk.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I tend to wander about barefoot wherever I can. I'm frequently singing to some degree or another. I have a name that's hard to forget.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books? I adore C.J. Cherryh, Ursula K. LeGuin, Paula Volsky, Tanith Lee, Octavia Butler, Paolo Bacigalupi, Sherri Tepper, Neil Gaiman... too many others to list. I read a lot. I have a love affair with scifi and speculative fiction.

Which bleeds over into my taste in movies and TV rather a lot. Give me Doctor Who, Fringe, and Battlestar Galactica! Also, just about anything by Hayao Miyazaki is pure gold.

Hmm. And I liked Firefly a lot. Also Pushing Daisies. And Arrested Development.

Aaaaaand it's harder to find music I don't enjoy than music I do. Broad tastes. Lately I've fallen hard for Sarah Jarosz, Red Molly, and Dar Williams.

...and I'm an unrepentant foodie with very broad tastes, but I have a soft place for good falafel and spanakopita.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My guitar, rainy nights, kitties, access to a working kitchen, tea, and a constant rotation of new books to read.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Imaginary worlds and fantastic voyages and stories about people who never were. And how to make them come to life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking up soup or stirfry or pilaf, singing something by the Decemberists, and debating the ramifications of media with my roommates.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm irrationally afraid of almost everyone I meet. Usually until I've known them at least a couple months.

Sometimes longer than that.
You should message me if
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You think we'd get along alright. You know. If you want to geek about British sci-fi, or make a cold-process soap, or play in a kayak, or chitter about literature, or sing in the park, or wander about aimlessly late in the evening...

...or anything else, really.