Its been awhile since I have written anything so I thought that I would update. We I thought that I had met my long lost love on here.....but it was not to be. I wish it had worked out he is a sweetheart. I still come here to look at his picture. I should move on but I really don't want to. Chris if you change your mind I will be here for you! hugs

I hate writing about myself! I never know what to say. But here we go. I'm a 50 years old. I love cars, mostly from the 50's 60's and 70's. I was married for for many years to a women that is still my best friend. I stuggled for many yrs with my sexuality. I didn't want to accept the fact that I was gay. There comes a time in everyones life that they see themselves for who they are. That time for me was about 4 yrs ago.

I want to say that I loved being in a relationship, and would someday love to find that special person to share life with agian. I have been out now for almost five years and tho I have meet some great guys I've also found that most gay men don't give each other much of a chance. We tend to base most of our opinons on looks alone. I've been guilty of this too, but if I truely want to find someone, I think we, I need to spend a little more time to get to know others better. I also think that we have preconceived notions about others as well. For example younger guys don't think that older guys are worth looking at. Older gay men tend to believe that there is no future with a younger guy, or that guys their own age are hot... I would say that both are not alway correct. So I ask that all of us remember that we are all human beings and that we all have and want the same things, love, companionship, and happiness.

As you have probably noticed I'm not a great speller. I edited my profile so many times because of it.

Most of the time it doesn't seem that I'm making much progess. I have 3 kids and the youngest two go off to school this fall. When I look at who they have become, I think it was worth every minute. Tho sometimes it wasn't easy. And my exwife did 80% of the raising.
I have been in supervision for the last 20 years and I think that it would be nice to do something else. Only problem is I don't know what that is yet. As for my love life it's not bad, but could be better. I would like to find someone that I can't stand to be apart from. Someone who is a little different than me. I tend to need a push from time to time. I'm pretty much a homebody. But I do like to go out. Just a walk by the river or in the park. Burlington has some beautiful parks.

Decorating, partly because I like to do it. All my family ask me to help them. That makes me feel good. Most of the time I'm really good at my job, but I do have my days.

use to be my hair...one of my best features is falling out! I guess the other thing would be my eyes and dimples. I'm left handed and I sign my name by turning the paper upside down. People are amazed that I can do that. But its natural for me.

It's a wonderful life, with Jimmy Stuart is one I like alot. Brokeback was very good also. Biographies seem to be what I read the most. Music...now we're talking. I love most all kinds of music, but my favorite genre is country. I guess thats because it makes me laugh, cry, smile and sometimes think. Food, I like most everything...but I'm your basic meat and potatoes type. I don't care for seafood. O well.

family- where would we be without them. friends- are a gift and should be appreciated. NPR- the true "fair and balance" news station. music- Got to have it. and passion- it drives life!

Well I spend to much time thinking about myself that's for sure! the other more important things would be my family. I also waste to much time thinking about what others think about me.

I usually go to Mr MOTO's with my exwife and have coffee. She's an awsome person. then home on the computer.

That I'm gay. I believe that one's sex life is their business.

If you read anything that interested you.