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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 39-51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is what one online dating "guru" says about men writing their profile: "Guys – write almost nothing about yourself because whatever you say will be a huge turn off to women."

In keeping with that, here's some of the favorite quotes from OKQ:
"I was born at a very young age."
"If you are looking for an angel, go to heaven."
" I'm a terrible person but I've come to terms with this."
" Am I sexually appealing yet?"

I could go on; I guess you can read between the lines here; the things I find humorous speak volumes about me.

I'm trying to follow this advise, can't help but deviate.

There is an upside; as you can see I actually enjoy reading profiles on OKQ. Caveat, mostly ones that are full of indirect references to who you are: personal sagas, edgy whit, thoughtful quotes, awkward phrases, and other deep ephemera.

My eyes glaze over on the long listing of unsubstantiated, personally descriptive adjectives, finger shaking lectures on the shortcomings of men, and wildly fanciful writing on the ideal respondent.

Are you turned off yet?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Big picture, I'm working on being myself at all times.
For work, I compulsively play with imagery, that includes a gig at a museum – one of my goals? to blur the line between work and fun; I tend to be entrepreneurian.
Important stuff: I'm on a on-going search for good chai masala, after thousands of attempts, have found three good cups.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
inner journeys. I can suck at sports or lavish entertainment but good at getting dirty (exploring not-so-inner, maybe even dangerous places, not to imply an inner journey isn't dangerous.
I am good at going to cafes and museums (modern art is my passion). I like surprises; in case of turbulence please fasten your seat belt.
I know more then I ever wanted to know about raising kids – love them in small to medium doses (depending on the person); I know, how nasty is that?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe, I'm not phallic a narcissist.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't want to get complicated here; when I have time, I read – really; I love books; I buy them frequently; I have a bunches around the house: art books, photography books, bios, autobios, (Francesca Woodman comes to mind); someday I may read them.
If you find Antonioni's early films interesting we might have a fun there. I met Jonas Mekas, and like Stan Brakhage, Brothers Quay, and M. McMillen – At times I like Fandor – I tend to think social commentary is good.
Should I have a better appreciation of fiction?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good challenging conversation some belly laughs, and maybe a deep & meaningful connection – everything else, ho hum.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things that are happening in the moment; that's such a lie.
I tend attract the things I ponder? I have to be careful what I love (or hate for that matter).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have typical, but then Friday is not something I always idealize as certain way; I like the idea of a intense late evenings – especially if the idea lives up to the reality.
A passionate cuddle (where possible) fest, otherwise I'll take my displaced sexuality here: a long bike ride, cafe sitting, home projects, ifilms, mostly these live up to my expectations.
Now and then it can get a little wild but not too often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to assume dominant role in a relationship, not to be confused with an exploitative role. That doesn't mean I demand submission, unless it's mutually enjoyable – go for it, challenge me on that one.
Oh, I love organic veggies,
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
your thirst for life isn't easily slaked, and/or, I might learn a few new things from you, and vice versa.

you know humanity is on a death-march but you can live with it.

you have hard-core criteria for who you will get intimate with.

You know that boundaries are more then just property lines.

You like walking, taking trains, riding bicycles, flying like superwoman.