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66 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 39–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Now accepting applications for the position of partner in a tragic, doomed-from-the-start...
The above, in fact, is a tremendously grounding, freeing statement: intimacy, my metaphor for the greater ideal; letting go of, being free of, and simultaneously embracing another, with the possibilities we could realize together (or apart). The antithetical state? no need to go there; I like to keep mine in the past. No worries: yesterday's fools become today's wise, and finally tomorrow's saints, or does it matter? let me know!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As far a the big picture, I'm working on being myself at all times. For work, I'm compulsively playing with imagery whenever I can, that includes a gig at a museum – the goal? to blur the line between work and fun. Update: my art museum gig recently turned full-time, a bit of an adjustment for a me, a chronic entrepreneurian.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My journeys are often inner ones but "I'm a material" boy; I can be blase about sports or lavish entertainment but good at getting dirty: exploring urban, rural, and-off-the-beaten-path, unusual places (going to cafes and museums? on my short list too). Surprises are my lifeblood, so, in case of turbulence, please fasten your seat belt.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You'll just have to see for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
When I have time I read; I love to buy books and have a bunch around, art books, photography books – Francesca Woodman comes to mind. If you find Antonioni's early films interesting, we might have a fun there. Wish I had a better appreciation of fiction – could you help me with that?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A really, a good challenging conversation and some belly laughs would top off my list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nothing 0:) that's hard.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have typical, but then Friday is not something I have to have a certain way, I like the idea of a wild and late evening – one of those things where the idea is often better than the reality.
Things like a passionate, cuddle fest, a long bike ride, or just hanging out watching inde films tends to reliably live up to my expectations. Now and then it can get a little wild but not too often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a passion for___________.
You should message me if
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you won't be an undergrad at UC Berkeley in 2015 (not much of a problem anyway), your thirst for life isn't easily slaked, and/or, I might learn a few new things from you, and vice versa.