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67 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Seriously, this is what one online dating "guru" says (about men writing a profile) "guys – write almost nothing because whatever you say will be a huge turn off to women."

In keeping with that, here's some of the favorite quotes from OKQ:
"I was born at a very young age."
"If you are looking for an angel, go to heaven."
" I'm a terrible person but I've come to terms with this."

I could go on. I guess you can read between the lines here; the things I find humorous speak volumes about me.

" Am I sexually appealing yet?"
True – that quote belongs in the above paragraph.

I'm trying to follow this advise, can't help but deviate.

Are you turned off yet?

There is an upside; as you can see I actually enjoy reading profiles on OKQ. Caveat, mostly ones that are full of indirect references to who you are: personal sagas, edgy whit, thoughtful quotes, and other deep ephemera.

My eyes glaze over on the lists of adjectives, finger shaking , and wildly fanciful description of the ideal respondent, the later could be useful as a self-improvement guide however.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Big picture, I'm working on being myself at all times.
For work, I compulsively play with imagery, that includes a gig at a museum – one of my goals? to blur the line between work and fun.
Update: my art museum gig recently turned full-time, a bit of an adjustment for a me, a chronic entrepreneurian.
Small stuff, I'm often on a trifling search for good chai masala; after years of searching have found three good cups.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
inner journeys. I can suck at sports or lavish entertainment but good at getting dirty (exploring not-so-inner, maybe even dangerous places.
I am good at going to cafes and museums (modern art is my passion). I like surprises; in case of turbulence please fasten your seat belt.
I know a more then I ever wanted to know about raising kids – love them in small to medium doses (depending on the person); I know, how nasty is that?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll just have to see for yourself; ugh, what a cliché.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
When I have time I read; I love to buy books and have a bunch around, art books, photography books – Francesca Woodman comes to mind. If you find Antonioni's early films interesting, we might have a fun there. Wish I had a better appreciation of fiction – could you help me with that?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good challenging conversation and some belly laughs.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things that are happening in the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have typical, but then Friday is not something I have to have a certain way, I like the idea of a wild and late evening – one of those things where the idea is often better than the reality.
Things like a passionate cuddle fest, a long bike ride, or just hanging out watching inde films tends to reliably live up to my expectations. Now and then it can get a little wild but not too often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I try to be my own best friend. How sick is that?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
your thirst for life isn't easily slaked, and/or, I might learn a few new things from you, and vice versa.

you know humanity is on a death-march but you can live with it.

You have hard-core and flex criteria for who you will get intimate with.