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66 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Like you I'm more then could ever be represented in an online profile. I am steady emotionally and very involved in always being or becoming the person of my dreams. Yes I'm 66 and, yada yada, if you are under 40 while reading this, well I still like a fringy, creative lifestyle, sometimes mistakenly thought of as: reserved for "young" persons. I have a part-time gig at a major urban art museum – I don't want to be pretentious here, but firstly I'm trying to be honest, secondly, if I don't pitch myself, no one else is going to do it.

I like to eat healthy, it keeps me energetic and young, for me that means greens, herbal stuff, and quality meat – a primal sort of diet. I meditate often but since I need my intellect, I try not to get too blissed-out, I treasure my cynical moments, and I need to be able to cope with the self-destructive tendencies of our tech-saturated, modern world. Actually I'd like to think I could slow the world in its journey to oblivion but to be honest, I haven't evolved to that state yet, I'm still very much in a place where I am working on myself, a place where I seem to have the most influence. As for the state of the world, I can at least drag my feet on the "progress" of destruction. For me that means: using less, healing more. I get that progress is more than a death-march, there are wonderful opportunities that modern world brings us in the mix; it's our modern generation's karmic predicament (that progress may be hazardous to our health).

Back to personal stuff: I have a passion for people who, like me, are different and who live their difference, especially spiritual/art/culture geeks. I enjoy encouraging and being recognized, encouraged for personal uniqueness. I am "needy" in a relationship: I need (and give) autonomy, quality support, love, affection; I need you to be who you are, if that is quirky, unusual, esoteric, and maintains-individual-character, then that's just awesome.

I love surprises and open open-endedness so forget everything you just read, surprise me with something amazing; let's see what you got. "Healthy" love and trust anyone? it’s probably not gonna happen all the time, humans, let’s face it, were sometimes too imperfect – maybe, but today's sinners are tomorrow's saints.
What I’m doing with my life
As far a the big picture, I'm working on being myself at all times.
The more mundane side of me is fixing up a 19th century house, editing a short film, and compulsively playing with imagery when ever I can, that sometimes includes a gig at a museum. On the physical side I ride a bike a lot, and prefer bus to car trans, I consider it a challenge to get somewhere unusual without a car o-ºo, That includes taking bikes on buses, ferries, & trains.
I’m really good at
I can be blase about sports or lavish entertainment but good at going to cafes, museums, exploring urban, rural, and-off-the-beaten-path, unusual places, e.g., "SF Toxic Beach", dirt roads, old industrial buildings, good neighborhood places. To sum it up: photography, video editing, fixing houses, making people laugh, and petting dogs on the street.
The first things people usually notice about me
You'll just have to see for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
When I have time I read; I love to buy books and have a bunch around, art books, photography books – Francesca Woodman comes to mind. Let's see in the fiction department there is The Tin Drum, stuff by Anton Chekov, Murakami – the Patti Smith bio was a fun read, it took me back to my NYC years.
Jazz and blues are high on my list, the Harry Smith anthology & R Crumb collection to me cultural treasures; on the esoteric side I like John Zorn, Marcus Shelby, etc., down to mainstream, Tom Waits, Patty Smith, Cowboy Junkies, Iron & Wine.
Filmmakers who come to mind: Orson Wells, Antonioni, Scorsese, Kathryn Bigelow Almodovar, Lars Von Trier, Sofia Coppola, Werner Hertzog, phew! isn't that a pretentious list? but I really do like all of the above.
The six things I could never do without
My alone time, is that six yet? If not maybe trips to New York City, taking pictures with vintage cameras, my MacIntosh stereo from 1973, really, a good challenging conversation and some belly laughs would top off a perfect day
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nothing :0) that's hard.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have typical, but then Friday is not something I have to have a certain way, say out for a wild and late evening; it could be a cuddle fest or a long bike ride. or just hanging out in my comfort zone. Now and then it can get a little wild but not too often.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can turn into a "help monster" if I don't keep a careful watch on myself. Yeah, Google that term, nothing? hmm.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 39–51
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you have a good sense of humor, you're into things greater then yourself, and are good at follow-through, on second thought just contact me anyway there is nothing to lose by reaching out.