I have a passion for people who are different and who live their difference, especially spiritual/art/culture geeks. I enjoy encouraging and being encouraged for personal uniqueness. I'm "needy" in a relationship: I need independence, quality support, love, affection, and I need you to be who you are, if that is quirky, unusual, esoteric, and maintains individual tastes and character, then that's just awesome. If I think I can’t trust someone, there’s no need to judge, they will go down a few rungs on my intimacy scale –why judge anyone, you might end up judging yourself with the same nasty standards, e.g. if you make a mistake, trash yourself (or someone else) – or give yourself another chance, and another, and another, hmm – I tend to the later when possible.
I love surprises and open endedness so forget everything you just read, surprise me with something amazing; let's see what you got. Healthy love and trust anyone? it’s probably not gonna happen all the time, humans, let’s face it, were sometimes just too imperfect – or not.