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30 Hamden, CT Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 28, 2014
White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Christianity, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Poorly), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a scientist at heart, but I am open to many perspectives. I'm educated, successful, emotionally mature, and I know what I want. My work keeps me VERY busy, but I make time for travel, dining out, music (very diverse tastes), and anything new and interesting. I'm tall, in great shape, with hazel eyes and dark VERY, VERY wavy hair (picture available). I am PRIMARILY LOOKING for friendship. However, if the situation presents itself, I am also looking to meet a woman who's smart, honest, and loves to laugh. Now tell me all about you...

I also have MANY research interests (this is just the tip of the iceberg!!!):

Family and Marital System Dynamics, Male and Female Differences Autism/High-Functioning Autism/Asperger's Syndrome Biology and Sociology of Sex and Gender; Sexual Intercourse; Sexual Disorders Psychology of Relationships, Group Dynamics, Love and Attachment Mood Disorders: Various forms of Depression, Mood Regulation Stress and Adjustment Disorders; PTSD Anxiety Disorders; Panic Disorders; Phobic Disorders Psychology of Eating, Nutrition, and Ingestive Behavior Sensation and Perception; Psychology of Vision, Audition, Touch, Pain, Taste Sensory Integrative Dysfunction in Pervasive Developmental Delays Psychology of Learning and Cognition Psychopharmacology, Drug Addiction/Abuse Altered States of Consciousness: Sleep, Hypnosis, Religious Experiences Crime and Deviance Theology; Religious-Philosophical Belief Systems; Sociology/Anthropology of Religion History and Philosophy of: Science/Mind/Religion Animal Behavior; Ethology Psychology of Perception and Action; Psychology of Sports; Psychology of Piloting (Visual Motor Neuropsychology)

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I am intellectual, wise, and courageous
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Study, Study, Study; Express my creativity through my research. Then its onto my law degree (Jurisdoctorate) and PASS THE BAR!!! to become an Attorney!

I am teaching myself Spanish, French, Japanese, Chinese, Portuguese and German (level of importance to me in that exact order. I am right now in two doctoral programs and my goal is to become a LICENSED CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST and an ATTORNEY AT LAW - and believe me, I will attain those goals. I have two bachelors degrees (with two minors) and a masters degree in Psychology.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a doctoral graduate student in psychology now. I know everything about philosophy, psychology sociology and law. I plan to eventually go into private practice someday.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm amazing nice, compassionate, empathetic, and very, very, VERY, VERY calm. I enjoy talking on the phone quite a bit. Many people will DEFINITELY say I am VERY talkative. Talking to me may very well confirm that observation LOL! :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I could email you a list of movies that I really like but the list is too long for this website; as for books, the list goes on and on.... A Few Books Are:

Man's Search For Meaning by V. E. Frankl, Catcher In The Rye, The Sun Also Rises, Illiad, Odyssey, The Aeneid, Walden Two, Anything by Shakespeare, Rainbox Six, Canterbury Tales by Chaucer, Beowulf, The Divine Comedy, Annie John by Jamaica Kincaid, Wide Sargasso Sea by Jean Rhys, 1984 by George Orwell, Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain, The Mole People by Jennifer Toth, The Jivaro by Harner, Any Abnormal and/or Developmental Psychology textbook on this planet has been read by me, Self Matters by Philip McGraw, Das Kapital by Karl Marx, The Social Construction of Reality by Berger and Luckmann, McDonalization of Society by George Ritzer, Anything by Nietzsche, David Hume, Aristotle, Plato, St. Thomas Aquinas, J.B. Watson, Skinner, Emile Durkheim, Max Weber, John Locke, George Berkeley, Immanuel Kant, Carl Rogers, Abraham Maslow, Rollo May, George Kelly, Roger Sperry, Carl Jung, Darwin, William James, and of course Anything by Sigmund Freud (especially the Interpretation of Dreams)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Cable Internet 2. My Computer and Massive Collection of Software 3. A 'Precor 546' Elliptical Exercise Machine 4. Green Tea? 5. Caffine? 6. Purpose?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything; But I'll give you a list of my favorite movies instead: The Graduate, Matrix Trilogy, About a Boy, Austen Powers, City Slickers, Clerks, Closer, Death Becomes Her, Death To Smoochy, Desert Heat, Diamonds Are Forever, Dogma, Fahrenheit 9/11, For Your Eyes Only, Get Shorty, Goldeneye, Hard Target, Hoffa, Hitch, The Hot Chick, Booty Call, I, Robot, Indecent Proposal, Jerry Springer's Ringmaster, K-19: The Widowmaker, Kingdom Come, Kinsey, Little Nicky, Lionheart, Live and Let Die, Lord Of The Rings trilogy, M*A*S*H, The Man With The Golden Gun, Memento, Meet The Parents/Fockers, Mission Impossible, Mobsters, Moonraker, The Naked Gun trilogy, Nighthawks, Never Say Never Again, Octopussy, One Hour Photo, On Her Majesty's Secret Service, Primary Colors, Bill & Ted's Bogus Journey, The Spy Who Loved Me, Sorority Boys, Sea of Love, Saving Private Ryan, The Saint, Rush Hour, Road Trip, Red Dragon, Rain Man, Phantom of the Opera, Little Nicky, License to Kill, Office Space, Spanglish, The World Is Not Enough, Trapped in Paradise, Two Weeks Notice, Undercover Brother, Vanilla Sky, Wayne's World, The Quiet Man, Pushing Tin, Phone Booth, 15 Minutes, Silence of the Lambs, Hannibal, What About Bob......I have a HUGE list on hand
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows? To be realistic - working on my doctoral dissertation!!! LOL!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private would be that I am very accepting, I do not judge with a bias. For example: I am very 'pro gay rights', even though I am heterosexual.
You should message me if
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You actually read one of Freud's or any contemporary psychologist's books (I'm kidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!). If you feel like it. AOL IM me at screename: "webesop" (no quotes)