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29 • Oxford, UK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 23
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Rather not say
- Open relationship
- Doesn’t have kids
I'm a polyamorous guy looking to make friends and maybe go on some dates with interesting people (who are comfortable with me seeing other people).
I live in Oxford (for a few years now) and am excited to meet new people in this lovely city.
I currently have four partners who I adore and who are happy for me to see other people (and who have partners of their own - ethical non-monogamy, it's a thing!). This does rather limit my time though (to steal someone's glorious pun, I'm a bit 'poly-saturated), so I'm looking more for new friends and casual loves.
I love language, people, friendship and uncertainty.
I dream of someday being a professional writer, and in the meantime I'm enjoying my work and writing in my spare time.
Also: being aggressively liberal and feminist on the intertubes - who could forget that timesink.
I'm fairly good at listening.
And I make a mean Manhattan.
If there's something people tend to notice, then they're not telling me.
Movies: A mish-mash of artsy films and geeky films.
Music: classic rock, emo, jazz, indie, recently starting getting into hip-hop a little. A bit of a mixture.
Shows: anything smart or meaningful. Breaking the fourth wall is a bonus.
Also: superheroes and zombies tend to feature in pretty much EVERYTHING I consume (except food).
2. My friends.
3. The Internet.
4. A good sized notebook.
5. At least one writing implement.
You're a poly or poly-friendly person who might like to go on a date.
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