Let's just get this out of the way right now, you should only
message me if you're not looking for monogamy.
I'm currently in a committed, honest, nonmonogamous relationship
with a partner I love very much. I'm not looking for the next love
of my life, I'm not looking for a "third," and I'm not looking for
one night stands. I'm looking for other honest, intelligent, wacky,
creative, nonmonogamous people to hang out with, get down with, and
laugh with. Or growl with. GRRRRR.
You should also only message me if you don't mind that I'm
incredibly busy with projects, my existing dating life, and other
social engagements, and if we do manage to meet and make a
connection it could be a couple of weeks until you see me again.
And then a couple of weeks after that. And then two months may go
by, because I tend to leave town a bit, too.
Also, before you send me another crass, boring, unintelligible, or
annoyingly short/long message, take a look at this excellent
article on how to send a first message on an online dating site: