I am Passionate, Busy, and Friendly.
My Self-Summary
I'm a ballroom dancer, dancing competitive on the UK amateur
circuit. I can do (at a far lesser standard) latin american, swing,
rock and roll and argentine tango, and in my time I've also done
ballet, tap, 'modern/character', offbeat, freestyle and
street.
I have a peculiar relationship with exercise: it needs to sneak up
on me. I love my dancing and I enjoy martial arts, having trained a
little in Pencak Silat, but I dislike exercising for the sake of
exercising. The repetitive nature of the gym has bored me whenever
I've tried, and while I like swimming with company, I find swimming
lengths along to be dull. Cycling works from A to B, but cycling in
a circle makes me wonder why I didn't just stay at the start.
Exercising needs to be fun and preferably a social thing in my
eyes!
I am unashamedly a geek; I enjoy
reading Sci-fi/fantasy and historical
fiction, I get enthusiastic about Doctor Who, and I do RP DnD and
oWoD. Being a geek is something that I don't think will ever
change. All ur bases are belong to me, I mean, us!
Two years ago I was bitten hard by the travel bug; I did charity
work in Malaysia and had a fantastic time. Since then I've found
the courage to travel alone and explore a range of locations from
the Northumbria hills and the Devon coast to the streets of
Singapore and Bangkok. Adventure tends to come and find me, and I
love it. I treasure my little car, a Fiat Panda, which I see as my
freedom to run off into the world on a slightly less international
basis.
I long to do more
travelling, particularly if I can
combine it with the veterinary field so that I feel I'm doing some
good in the world. India, China, Japan, horse-backing across
Mongolia and riding the ships of the desert through the middle
east, meeting the tribes of Africa and going on Safari, dancing in
the mardi gras parades of Latin America and photographing the
outback of Australia; I want to do it all. Travelling for me is
about new experiences with things and people, learning someone
else's way of surviving, and seeing familiar sights at home with
eyes that know there is a different way to do things.
I like
cooking,
particularly recipes that I pick up during my travels. Savoury and
sweet, it comes from scratch whether pastry, pizza, ice-cream,
curry or multi-course dinner party. I taught myself to cook more
than just the basics while at university, and now found it a good
way to relax and enjoy delicious food. I own a couple of weird
teapots and lots of delicious kinds of tea in various colours,
scents and flavours; I was infamous in my lectures for taking a
teapot with me. I am now renowned at work for adhering to "Cake
Friday"; I bake things on Friday morning to take into work with
me!
I am the kind of person to have a few very close friends, but those
who do reach the inner circle find a fierce loyalty that has seen
me travel hundreds of miles on hare-brained schemes and sudden
whims, particularly at odd hours of the morning. (Finances don't
yet stretch to international destinations... though this has
happened once and saw me crossing international borders.)
Now in Malay
Sebab saya cakap bahasa Malaysia sahaja sikit, saya malu dan
teragak-agak. Saya sudah pergi negeri Malaysia ke 2007 dengan
Raleigh Internation untuk tiga bulan juga dua minggu ke 2008
Saya doktor haiwan sudah siswazah 2009. Saya penari, suka membaca
(termasuk Orson Scott Card, Terry Pratchett, Robin Hobb), memasak
dan perjalanan.
What I’m doing with my life
I studied at Trinity College, Cambridge, to qualify as a vet and
managed to persuade a veterinary surgery in Kettering that they
wish to employ me. I love my job to pieces spending far too much
time there even outside my hours of employment; I guess I am a
workaholic! It's everything I hoped it would be and more though, so
I'm glad I have a job that I really enjoy.
With my dancing, I have danced with my current partner for about
four years and we are working towards developing our national
ranking. In our age group, we're about 30th in our category, so
definite room for improvement.
Thinking about going travelling again in the not-too-distant
future...
I’m really good at
Losing my keys. Being fashionably late. Cooking. Ballroom dancing.
Relaxing over a cup of tea.
The first things people usually notice about me
My long hair, a voice that is often singing when happy, and a habit
of speaking using a wide range of onomatopoeia which nevertheless
is very descriptive.
Squee!
Narh?
The list goes on...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Reading:
Sci-fi/fantasy - Orson Scott Card, Terry Pratchett, Robin
Hobb
Historical fiction - e.g. Bernard Cornwell, Jean Plaidy.
Movies: Depends on my mood! Moderately light comedy through to
serious dramas have held my attention. I like films which have at
least a token plot, and by far I enjoy productions which pay
attention to small details as well as big. Just to give a few
examples of the various films I've watched recently: Princess
Bride, Green Mile, Princess Monokome, Equilibrium, Shrek, Sweeney
Todd, Pirates of the Caribbean, Minority Report, Cool
Runnings.
TV: I watch precious little t.v, given I lived for years without
one and still don't watch things live. I can be convinced into
watching series of things: Doctor Who and Hustle have both been
introduced into my life relatively recently. I vaguely follow the
F1 motor-racing as well, a throwback from growing up close to
Silverstone.
Music: Most things go as long as they have rhythm and tune. The
extremes of genres tend not to fit very well; while I like some
softer metal, I dislike random screaming into the microphone and I
can't stand warbling operatic singers. Music is not (despite
competency in piano, harp, clarinet and vocals) a major defining
feature of my life.
Food: While I will eat almost anything (peanuts and overcooked
vegetables are some of the very few examples of that which I will
not consume), I favour freshly prepared and cooked foods. Chilli I
will eat; I'm just incredibly sensitive to it! However, I do enjoy
curries and similar dishes, as well as European cuisine, Mexican,
Chinese, Sushi/Sashimi... om nom nom nom! I also go crazy for
strawberry ribena and I have a collection of lots of different
types of tea.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
Massage - definitely a welcome luxury at the end of a long day.
Being part of the university massage society was a good
thing.
Car - I travel too much to want the inconvenience of not having
one. I relish my freedom.
Laptop - I've never owned a desktop, only a laptop. I have a lot of
my important course documents on here as well as random creative
writings, photos of my life, games etc.
Sleeeeeep - I am very fond of my bed and I enjoy lazy mornings with
no rush to get up.
Hairbrush - there was a time in my life when I didn't have access
to clean bathing water. For nearly two weeks mud built up in my
hair from the river water and I hated the feel of it as I couldn't
get a brush through.
... you know, I'm not that materialistic and I'm struggling to
think of things without which I couldn't do. Ah ha! Glasses! I'm
not that short-sighted, as in, I'm typing this without them, but I
feel lost watching t.v. or walking outside without them.
Recently, I discovered that I feel naked without a stethoscope
around my neck at work. Go figure?!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I put my keys/bag down. The number 42. The best way to spend
a day in the sunshine. What would happen if you put buttered toast
on a cat's back and let it jump off the table. What's up with my
most recent weird case at work. Whether I should get a kitten. When
the next dance practice will be. Where I put my keys/bag down after
finding them a minute ago.
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooking dinner
then heading out
ballroom dancing with friends
and then socialising afterwards over a drink or two. Alternatively,
spending the evening in with a book/film/good company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Hmm... work in progress.
You should message me if
... you're looking for friendship and/or conversation, like to meet
to chat over coffee, if you want to keep me company while swimming,
or just generally feel like giving me a poke to say "hey".
I'm definitely not looking for any casual hook-ups or short term
flings, and I'm determined to be clear about that right from the
start.