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31 Ames, IA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 19
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I work at the library and love helping people. I love being outdoors, any thing to do with water or walking. I love animals, hope to have a dog some day. I love looking at cars from the late '60s and early '70s. My favs right now are '65 Mustangs and '69 Novas.
I'm a supporter of the military, I figure if you've served, all us citizens owe you so much more than we can give you. My favorite branch of the military is the Marines.
I also love hummers (the original H1's, not these ugly ones they have out for civilians to buy), and fighter jets

I miss having something to do outside. I'd love to go somewhere on a hike, go to the Ledges, take a long motorcycle ride, wander through water or just be outside.
What I’m doing with my life
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I currently work part-time at the library, I love my job and my co-workers. I love going to garage sales and finding neat treasures. One of my passions is going to old car shows and checking out sweet cars from the late 60's and early 70's.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I used to be good at shooting, when I had a rifle with a scope. Sadly, my ex took that with him when he left, I'd like to shoot more.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is probably my tattoos, I love them and will someday get more. I'm pretty shy until I know someone or I find out we share common interests.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love true crime non-fiction.
I love action movies, some of my favorites are the Die Hard movies, Shooter, the Transformers movies, We Were Soldiers, Four Brothers, Ghostrider, The Blues Brothers, Savages, Battleship and Drive Angry. My new favorite movie is The Equalizer. I don't currently watch TV, but my all-time favorites are Supernatural, Third Watch, Cops, Southland, New York Undercover. I like violence and a lot of gore.
I love all kinds of music, on my MP3 player is a mix of country, rock, instrumental, pop, dance. I like The Pussycat Dolls, Bruce Springsteen (grew up listening to him), Montgomery Gentry, Trace Adkins, Nickelback, Eminem, The Black Eyed Peas.
I have a giant sweet tooth and love anything sweet, also love pizza, burgers and steak.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My MP3 player (gotta have music), the internet, my art, my friends, some book to read.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Now, that it's getting warmer, I see all the bikes on the roads, hear their pipes and wish I was on the back of one. I miss doing things outside, I love warmer weather and would love to do more outside. I do like watching movies, listening to music, getting better at cooking/baking, and my artwork.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading a book, I always have way too many checked out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like guns. I love to go shooting.
I love watching violence, I'm not violent (except for the above), but I love watching it, the gorier the better.
You should message me if
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You're not a jerk, I've run into way too many of those lately, and it's getting annoying.