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30 Beijing, China Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 21
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Chinese (Okay)
My self-summary
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I am what I am... always on to some new project, actively looking for other collaborators and eager to hear life stories. I guess I want to make sure everything is to some degree meaningful somehow. I question existence too much for my own good... I think it has something to do with having grown up traveling the world.

People are a constant fascination to me. So is the Internet... but maybe that's cause they're hand-in-hand.

I have had many lives already in this body alone and from it has come wisdom I like to keep at bay with humor. I always want to be laughing and learning. There is too much to see and experience in the world to take it all so seriously... seriously.

I am open minded, creative, and witty.

Also, for some unforeseen phenomena... I have found that as I get older I perpetually seem to be looking younger. My secret: I discovered having a sense of humor is the fountain of youth. ;o)

Since living in the endless pollution of Beijing… I have taken on a whole new perspective for healthy choices, healthy living, etc. I'm an active person who loves to run, but can't in this city… so I've replaced that with biking everywhere I can. I'm a fan of Qi Gong and acupuncture, meditation and the endless pursuit of enlightenment.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm on step two of an eight step process to get where I'm going… and I'll get there eventually... But… in the meantime...

There is a long list of things I want to do in my life still… lucky me, half of them are already crossed off...

I'm a photographer and writer at heart, although working on films, plays, working with computers, researching the Chinese Internet, operating art galleries and curating shows are also among this list. I theorize about the Internet all the time... it's one of my biggest mediums and areas of research. And of course... music.... Lots of that going around in my life these days... I am passionate about synthesizers and have been a vocalist for years.

I am always trying to accomplish things I've never done before.

I want to forever be expanding my horizon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to and telling stories. Going on adventures. Picking up something I've never done before and doing it pretty well the first time around. Being self-taught.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my eyes, my smile, my sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Indian food. Sushi. Thai. Tom Stoppard. Joseph Campbell. Franny and Zoey. Siddhartha. David Gordon Green. Booker ("Bukka") White. Nina Simone. Independent films. Aerial Pink. Milan Kundera. Werner Herzog. Kristin Lucas. Joanna Newsom. LCD Soundsystem. Tuung. Animal Collective. For Tet. Tree Wave. Forma. Candi Stanton. The Akron Family. Unbearable Lightness of Being. Man's Search for Meaning. Just Kids. 1984
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
conversations with strangers
paper and pen
a piano and/or keyboard and/or synthesizer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Space Time, language, cultures and the Internet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Whatever comes my way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm really bad at lying.
You should message me if
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You want to have a meaningful conversation, drink some wine, discuss cultures/life/science/technology, potentially collaborate on some artistic project, or go on an adventure.