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wellgrowngopher

48 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:28pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am in the process of writing a memoir about some experiences from my youth, and I have no problem talking about myself, but, for some reason, the thought of writing a "self-summary" is very daunting. Well, here goes:
I teach high school English, so you would think that I'm a book snob, but I love T.V. and movies. If Shakespeare or Dickens were alive today, they'd be writing for TV or the movies. Sacrilege? Sorry. It's true.
I live on the Upper West Side but I love bopping around to all corners of Manhattan.
I am the only New Yorker who doesn't have food delivered to the apt. I tend to cook for myself or go out.
I have never used "I" more than in the previous ten sentences.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying really hard to balance work, fun, and relaxation. Lately, work has been losing.
I’m really good at
Making pizza; grammar and punctuation; conversation (talking and listening); eating the two-boned chicken wings while everyone else is grabbing for the mini-drumsticks; dog whispering; reading people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not really sure about this one. Ladies on OKC seem to notice my smile. I would have guessed it to be my perfectly symmetrical shaved head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: too many to list. I'm a big Cormac McCarthy fan. I've read most John Irving novels. I've read most of the classics, but I prefer contemporary literature.
Movies: Brave Heart, The Princess Bride, Groundhog Day, Oh, Brother, Where Art Thou, Fight Club; The Matrix (Keanu is only good when he is given minimal dialogue and maximum bullet-dodging), A River Runs Through It, etc.
TV: HBO shows - The Wire, Sopranos, Rome, Boardwalk Empire, etc. Just caught up on Homeland - pretty good
Thursday night NBC, South Park (brilliant satire!)
Food: pretty much everything. I love a good steak or burger, sushi, pizza
The six things I could never do without
family and friends
my job
good pizza
good Buffalo wings
beer
I hate to admit the connection I have made with my iphone but I'd be lying if I kept it off this list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my legacy, my happiness.
On a typical Friday night I am
happy hour! or the couch and a movie - depends on how exhausting my week was.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really enjoy answering (and reading responses to) OKC "questions" - some of them are hilarious! And I think they reveal a lot more about a prospective match than anything on this "about" page.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
- you live somewhere in the vicinity (I have gotten messages from Wisconsin and Georgia).
- you are fun and only a little bit crazy.