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wendyjane70

45 San Jose, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Physically, financially, and emotionally fit redhead looking for a man with manners, a sense of humor, and a healthy sex-drive. If you are out of the area, or outside of my age range, I won't respond to your emails. Thanks for understanding.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
“ I teach fitness classes as a hobby, in addition to working a full-time job. Teaching is a huge part of my life. I get a charge out of helping members meet their fitness goals, as well as overcome other obstacles in their lives through fitness. They remind me that fitness isn't always about what you see improving on the outside, but how it feeds the soul and mind. I am honored that they allow me to be a part of their journey, and realize I learn as much from them as they do from me.

I'm also a single mom to 14-year-old twins. I have been down some rough roads with my kids over the years (my son is high-functioning autistic), but things are finally where they need to be, and both of my kids are thriving. I try to be involved in my kids' lives as much as possible, and am very proud of who they have become. I am grateful beyond words for the life that I have now.

I know what I want from a relationship (and what I don't want), and am willing to wait for the right guy, so I'm not going to latch on to you, or waste your time just for the sake of having someone to spend time with. I've been described as affectionate, loyal, and light-hearted. I believe physical closeness is as important as emotional closeness. I also believe that couples need time apart to recharge, and to allow each person to maintain their identity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. Cooking Italian food....my dad's side of my family is 100% Italian.

2. Fitting lots of groceries into the fridge (it's the nerdy analytical side of my brain coming through).

3. Fixing things around my house. When there is no "man of the house" you learn quickly how to fend for yourself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile (I have all my teeth and they are straight and white), my red hair, and that I am very approachable. I can strike up a conversation with just about anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Forrest Gump, Young Frankenstein, 80s movies, Big Bang Theory, Sex and the City re-runs, classic rock, Glen Miller (I know; kind of old-school but it's wonderful to listen to on a cold or rainy night with a fire going, good drink and good company), and most food except sushi (but I will go with you if you like it and I'll eat a bento box!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My morning coffee (this is mandatory or I get a migraine, and it isn't pretty). If I sleep over and you don't have any.....get ready for an early-morning road trip to Starbuck's. Better yet - buy me a coffee maker and keep it at your place so we don't have to get dressed and go out :-)
2. Teaching fitness classes
3. Occassional trips to the mountains (it clears my head)
4. My dog (she's my buddy)
5. A great-fitting pair of jeans (with boots in the winter, heels or flip-flops in the summer), and yoga pants
6. Intimacy (big sigh), and a good man to spend time with (ok I've done without you long enough!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How nice it would be to have someone to spend time with. Don't get me wrong....I don't obsess about it, but it's the one thing that's missing. The rest of my life is in pretty good order.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well I'm sitting here eating cereal for dinner, watching Big Bang Theory with my dog, and filling out this profile :-) Ok seriously......I am not a big "club girl" (I got that out of my system in college), but could be convinced to go to one with the right company. You would more likely find me having dinner and/or drinks with friends, teaching fitness classes, or hanging out at home with my kids. Exciting huh?! If you were here, we'd be going out for dinner, cooking at home, or eating take-out in bed ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get teary-eyed every time I watch "The Notebook", and "Forrest Gump" when his mom and Jenny die......every......single......time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are: active, have manners (chivalry is a huge turn-on to me....even more of a turn-on if you bring me flowers from time to time) have your life together, and are okay dating a woman who has kids. Bonus points if you can make me laugh, but also have a passionate side.

I prefer to meet you in person sooner than later. I am not interested in texting back and forth for weeks. I have found that you can't tell much about a person and their true personality until spending some time with them.

Oh....and PLEASE be who your profile says you are.