Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
After two years of doing some internal work, I'm ready for THE
great relationship that will be the last. Romance and deep
connection is obviously a huge part of this. The passion, the
flowers, the special trips, the emotional intimacy. I'm a
good empathetic listener and expect the same in a partner.
With too many degrees and a constant curiosity about the
world, I'm also looking for someone who prizes their mind and
constantly seeks a greater understanding of the world.
Even though I come across as pretty serious, I also like to laugh
and make others laugh! Louie C.K. and Jon Stewart are American
heroes. And of course, the occasional Youtube clip like the Morgan
Freeman GPS video. (We all should have Morgan Freeman GPS.
The sound of the voice alone will inspire you to drive well.)
I’ve been doing theater since childhood which has led to my current
job teaching drama and film. Also, I've been writing and directing
films for several years now. I like to make thrillers and sci fi
but I’ve also done a few comedies and musicals. After winning some
awards, I am getting my latest film ready for its worldwide
I've been involved in programs that try to make education more
equitable and even though I work in a private school now I work to
educate my privileged students about these inequities. Teaching
high school students (and sometimes college students) gives me
energy and inspiration.
I have two wonderful daughters. Being a single dad is great and
very challenging. I’m ready for the right partner, and because I
already have two kids, she needs to be someone who is okay with not
having more children.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
*Film and theater teacher
*Writer and director of films and plays
*Father of two special girls (3 days a week)
*Spending time with family and friends
*Exploring our local urban and natural wonders.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having engaging conversations about a wide range of topics. I
especially love talking about films, art, and the latest political
issue of the day. And more…
Listening empathetically and supporting friends and family.
Being creative. I always have a film/play project going.
Love doing fun, spontaneous activities. Trip to see an art
gallery, festival, film, play, etc., out of the way neighborhood,
day trips, day and night trips.
Planning a fun and adventurous date.
The first things people usually notice about me
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*Gets things done.
*Easy going and intense. (I know, it's a contradiction.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I love nonfiction, especially ones on contemporary social
justice issues (The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander =
brilliant), self-improvement topics, entrepreneurship and
Movies: Traffic, Looper, Silver Linings Playbook, Twelve Years a
Slave, Moonrise Kingdom, Shawshank Redemption, Little Miss
Sunshine, Slumdog Millionaire, early Woody Allen, some of his new
ones, the second Hunger Games, Full Monty. I will stop now.
Music: I love Soul, R&B, Alt. Rock. Alt pop. Dance. Hip-Hop.
For example: Interpol. Early Kayne West. Adele. Sia (Her
newest is astonishing.) Ceelo. Yeah Yeah Yeah. Phoenix. Etc
TV: The Wire - I’m a fanatic. Breaking Bad. Lost. Orphan Black.
Louis CK. Luther. Jimmy Fallon and Jon Stewart.
Plays: Arthur Miller, David Henry Hwang, Valina Hasu Houston, Craig
Lucas, Tony Kushner, Lisa Loomer, Aristophanes, Shakespeare is of
course amazing but I'm more contemporary oriented.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art, books, and movies
Something to create art with
Connecting to a good cause
Love and intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social justice issues
The paradoxical nature of online dating: how it’s both very
intimate and superficial
Need more free time
Why teachers and artists don't get compensated like lawyers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hang out night
Sometimes working on a film or play.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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*Emotionally and intellectually intelligent.
*Compassionate about your family, friends and the world around
*Love or at least appreciate the arts.
*Ready for a long term relationship
*Fun is also a good quality!
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