On many levels I am looking for myself, the round peg in a square world. I am/she is; kind, concerned with the well being of others, communicative, independant, curious, fit and active, courageous, sexual and sensual, and enjoys laughter.
I am; calm
she is; not so much.
The formula for my happiness is not so secret. If looking at you makes me want to listen to you, and listening to you makes me want to reach out for you..., and you feel the same about me, odds are i'm a happy camper*. All the rest, the things we do to keep the lights on, or keep our minds and bodies oiled and tuned, is extra.
*reference to camping should not be construed as an endorsement of or fondness for, actual camping.
I enjoy skiing, tennis, fencing, motorcycle racing, cycling, golf, martial arts, bowling...yes, I said bowling....
reading, creative writing, doing nothing, movies and tv, cooking and eating in, dining out, conversation...
I don't need to agree with you to enjoy a conversation. I am always interested in understanding why someone thinks what they think.
Bending probably curves.
hanging with kids
being the exception to the rule
Movies: Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are dead, The lion in winter, Casablanca, Schindlers list, Amélie Poulain, Truly Madly Deeply, Momentos, Remains of the day, Twelve Angry Men...too many
TV: Game of thrones, House of Cards (US) , Sherlock(UK), Rome, The West Wing (anything by Sorkin), The Big Bang Theory, Shameless, Generation Kill, Grey's Anatomy, Fringe, Battlestar Galactica is perhaps the best tv series ever.
Music: Almost anything, but i do believe that one day the world will come together in a unified effort to stop the spread of country music.
Food: Indian, Italian, vegetarian
a computer to write with
an instrument to play around with.
a sport to do
a motorcycle to "be" on.
For the purposes of this exercise; chemistry. How much genetic information must we glean subconsciously even from a cursory glance at a photograph.
I am not looking for someone to look up to, or down to; I am looking for a partner. When I say that, I actually mean exactly that. I am fundamentally a feminist, and as such, not the wooing kind. I'm not interested in putting my best foot forward as I interview for the position of your mate, anymore than I would expect you to. I would like us to simply be who we are. At the end of the day you will look at my picture and I shall look at yours, and if we find one another intriguing then we'll read, and perhaps seek to know even more. That, in my opinion, is as it should be.
I prefer the "like" optio to sending a message to someone not interested in recieving it. You don't have to be a premium member to see that I "liked" you, you just have to be sufficiently proactive to use the "like" option as well.
You stay friends with your x's
You are young with an old soul or old with a young one. (Which reminds me, Harold and Maude makes the favorite movie). Numbers are of no import, but regardless of age, one should endeavour to remain fit and active in both mind and body. My preference for lean over voluptuous is not a value judgement. It simply is what it is.
You are a heteroflexible deviant with great legs and a fondness for being watched.