On many levels I am looking for myself, the round peg in a square world. I am/she is; kind, concerned with the well being of others, communicative, independant, curious, fit and active, courageous, sexual and sensual, and enjoys laughter.
I am; calm
she is; not so much.
The formula for my happiness is not so secret. If looking at you makes me want to talk to you and talking to you makes me want to sleep with you and sleeping with you makes me want to look at you..., and you feel the same about me, odds are i'm a happy camper. All the rest, the things we do to keep the lights on, or keep our minds and bodies oiled and tuned, is extra.
*reference to camping should not be construed as an endorsement of or fondness for, actual camping.