If I had my way in finding what I really want... it would go something like this:
Someone real. Someone willing to risk it all. Someone who knows the difference between the guy they would like to go to bed with and the guy they would love to wake up next to as they are rarely the same guy...
I am looking for the guy I will call first when everything is going great and the guy I will call first when everything is going horribly wrong and he will answer... every. single. time. I'm looking for the guy who will call me during the same from his end. I will answer... every. single. time.
I can dream right?
Back to reality... Well... I grew up in Virginia... but I have traveled extensively and I have spent a tremendous amount of my life in Southern California. SoCal is honestly where I see my life headed for the longterm and I have been putting things in order to fulfill that dream. I find the monotony of life here in Virginia life sucking honestly... the small town atmosphere here and the attitudes and ridiculous notions some people come up with here just sucks the life right out of anyone with dreams and hopes and wanting to "go places" in life. Sure, this can be found many places besides here, but it seems to rear its ugly head far more here than many other places I've experienced...
I consider myself a well put together guy who is still a work in progress of where I want to end up. I enjoy food, wine, friends... I enjoy the gym... I enjoy house renovations... and I enjoy doing anything in terms of creativity or with history.
I'm sentimental... I have a huge heart (which I sadly hide from most anymore)... and I am bluntly honest... love me or hate me you always know where I stand.