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25 M Modesto, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:56pm
Hispanic / Latin
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a punk dude into making bad puns, general nerdery, and intersectional feminist politics. I'm pretty friendly guy unless your racist, classist, homophobic, transphobic, or a dick in general. Oh and if you're into the whole Meyers-Briggs thing I'm an ENFP (though I'm borderline on the extroversion/introversion scale).
What I’m doing with my life
Writing pop punk songs, trying to fill the void.

Career-wise, I wanna be a teacher. I'm one class away from transferring to Stan State, where I'll get my bachelor's degree and teaching credential. I'll probably move to Sacramento or something after that.
I’m really good at
Towing the line between not taking myself too seriously and not acting like a total joke.
The first things people usually notice about me
Glasses, beard, tattoos, maybe my nose ring.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Authors: Aaron Cometbus, F. Scott Fitzgerald, & JD Salinger.

TV: Breaking Bad, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Community, Game Of Thrones, Gilmore Girls, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Parks & Recreation, The Walking Dead, etc.

Music: Green Day, Pinhead Gunpowder, Descendents, Jawbreaker, The Copyrights, The Ergs!, Dear Landlord, The Beatles, The Who, Tenement, Big Eyes, Masked Intruder, New Creases, The Dopamines, Crimpshrine, Dillinger Four, The Replacements, The Exploding Hearts, J Church, House Boat, The Measure [SA], RVIVR, ELO, Paul Simon (& Art Garfunkel), Mana, The Muffs, The Zombies, Iron Chic, Dion & The Belmonts, Herman's Hermits, The Specials, etc.

Food: Burritos, Pizza, Sandwiches/Tortas, BBQ.
The six things I could never do without
1. Friends and family, for obvious reasons.
2. Reliable transportation, which currently takes the form of my Dodge Dakota, named Paradise -- named after the Green Day song, "Welcome To Paradise".
3. Music and seeing it played live, specifically DIY punk bands that aren't so big that they attract a bunch of shitty people who want to "mosh, bro." I'd rather sing along in the front and feel connected through the lyrics.
4. Internet. Not solely for social media, but what I'll refer to as socially conscious media -- as in intersectional feminist blogs/articles.
5. Marvel Unlimited subscription. I read a bunch of independent punk comix and zines, too, but the Marvel universe has a ton of my favorite stories and characters.
6. Comedy. Stand-up, TV shows, movies, terrible puns, anything that will make me laugh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You know how Abed in Community constantly thinks about living out tropes from his favorite movies? I do that with songs. From drinking $5 pints at SFO to returning home with a handful of (freshly dumpstered) flowers and a bottle of cheap wine, in the summertiiiiiime. I also make a lot of obscure references (for those of you not in the know, the first song reference was to Alkaline Trio's San Francisco and the latter was to Crimpshrine's Summertime.)
On a typical Friday night I am
At a show or watching a terrible B-movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"I'm not going to try to tell you that I'm different from all the rest.
I've been subject to the same de-structure of desire and I've felt the same effects;
I'm a hetero-sexist tragedy.
And potential rapists all are we.
But don't tell me this is natural.
This is nurturing.
And there's a difference between sexism and sexuality.
I had different desires prior to my role-remodelling.
And at six years of age you don't challenge their claims.
You become the same.
(Or withdraw from the game and hang your head in shame).
I think that's exactly what I did.
I tried to sever the connections between me and them.
I fought against their further attempts to convince a kid
that birthright can bestow the power to yield the subordination
of women and do you know what patricentricity means?
I found out just a couple of days/months/years/minutes ago.
It means male values uber alles and hey!
Whaddaya know... sex has been distorted and vilified.
I'm scared of my attraction to body types.
If everything desired is objectified then maybe eroticism needs to be redefined.
And I refuse to be a 'man'."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You'd like to hang out or go on a date, or whatever. I'd just appreciate it if you said something a little more substantial than a simple greeting.