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westsideb

42 F Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Aug 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My name is not Deb, it says West Side B.
(Not Westsi Deb). I just needed to set that straight.

First generation Chicago north sider, lived in apartments, got bussed to magnet schools. Heart that is true and bleeds redder than I would like.
Second-guesser.
Truth-sayer.
I'm the friend that you call when the shit hits the fan or when you see something absurd on the street and need to laugh about it with someone or a reality check is needed or you want a drinking buddy or have an extra ticket to that thing or you need a book recommendation or your prom date stood you up.
I have never had a PB&J.
I don't eat eggs.
I am drawn the the gray area not the dark side. I've been to that side and chose not to stay.

I like an eloquent, imaginative man. If you can build things or work with your hands, that's a super plus. I'm a little gritty and pretty open minded and it's probably only going to work out if you are too. Please have a sense of humor... I have a quick wit, you are going one to need to keep up.

I have a decent emotional vocabulary and we might need to talk about feelings at some point so have some tools in the emotional crayon box Sir.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a self employed interior designer. I mostly work in renovation/construction, but I do all kinds of projects.

Trying to fit into those jeans from 7 years ago that I refuse to throw away.

I want to travel more. I want to see more obscure art things here in town.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making mistakes, learning from them, making them again.
Dirty talk.
Making strong coffee.
Picking paint colors.
Space planning
Talking you down from a ledge
Writing words down in an order I made up myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My heart. My words. My eyes. My rack. Not necessarily in that order.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food is comfort. I love to cook for a good man. Fuckin hot. I love restaurants. I love drinks. Lets eat and drink stuff.

Music is everything. i love it all.

I read a lot of fiction and watch a lot of documentaries.

I collect flea market prints and objects... paint by numbers, stuff with birds, botanicals, pressed leaves, bugs, stuff made with feathers, paintings of horses, naked people, trees, children. Sad things... portraits. ink, pencil and charcoal drawings. Gold frames.

Just bought a taxidermied four point buck head.

If I had a lot of money, I'd spend some of it on art.

One day I will have a room in my house with Stampeding Horses wallpaper by Florence Broadhurst.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my friends (I prolly shouldn't call them things)
vowels and consonants
hysterical laughter
loyalty
music
beauty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Housework. Paperwork. Lungs. Heart. Kidneys. Liver. Labia. Teeth. Bills. Cat Box. Check Engine Light. The Better Angels of my Nature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
jivin' around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Livin' on the the road, my friend
Was gonna keep you free and clean
Now you wear your skin like iron
Your breath's as hard as kerosine
You weren't your mama's only boy
But her favorite one it seems
She began to cry when you said goodbye
And sank into your dreams."
-Townes Van Zandt

Post coitum omne animalium triste est.

I got fat this winter. Ugh.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 34–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you have a story to tell and can tell it.

you are a contender.

"We made somethin outta nuthin
From a scratch and a hope
Two old guitars, like a shovel and a rope"
-Shovels & Rope