#1. first & foremost, want to meet someone who lives close to me (Antioch) or at least in Contra Costa County. No, San Jose, San Francisco & Sacramento are not in my area, hence they are not in contra costa county. I tend to keep busy & have a long commute so it's important that I meet someone in my area.
#2. Please be in shape. I'm sorry but I do not find myself attracted to an overwheight or heavy set body type. If you have a beer belly & don't do anything to stay/get in shape, it's a deal breaker.
#3. Age...yes age does matter...sorry boys but I used to be open minded & told myself age doesn't matter but you have proven me wrong. So 28-40 is reasonable from my experience.
#4 Please be respectful, just becuase I show a little cleavage does not give you permission to talk to me like Im a whore. Sex appeal does not merrit harassment. And just becuase a woman is confident & sexy does not mean she enjoys cat calls and harassing comments. And no I don't want a sugar daddy...so stop trying to sell yourself with you money & pretty things. Damn shame!