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westsideofvenus

32 / F / Straight / Single

Antioch, California

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 2:35pm
Ethnicity
Asian, Black, Native American, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I prefer to meet someone who:
**Has no kids**
**Athletic/Fit (a gut is a a turn off)**
**Lives in the East Bay area**
**Is open to the possibility of a relationship**


As for me:
California grown and a Bay Area native, I am an independent single woman with no kids. I recently bought my first home in Antioch and would like to meet someone who lives in Contra Costa county.
What sets me apart from the average person are my life experiences during childhood. I have experienced life from the bottom and have worked through many struggles to get where I am today; I accredit those struggles to making me a stronger, wiser, and more open minded person. I am very proud of who I have become and now I would like someone special to enjoy life with!

Since it's typical to brag about our best traits, and no one really wants to read the same cliche, stereotypical crap everyone writes, I want to have a little fun and change it up a bit.
I am clumsy (especially in flat shoes since I wear heels most of the time). I am petite, standing at 5'1". I look younger than I am...or at least this is what I am told. I have expensive taste but am very frugal (not cheap). I grew up with a mentally ill mother(Schizophrenic), and spent a good deal of my childhood homeless. I do not have perfect teeth. I hate doing dishes manually. I don't make my bed in the mornings. I look mad if I am not smiling (it's called "B*** Face" lol). I have road rage from time to time. I have to use spell check a lot! I'm feisty and known to speak my mind. I have a crude sense of humor and tend to say what other people are too afraid to say. I don't like sweets much & prefer salty, spicy goodies (beef jerky & Chips+Salsa YUM!). I talk to my cat like she is a person. I think out loud very frequently. I am analytical and must know the "how and why" behind everything. I turn into a monster if not fed timely. I'm not very patriotic. I prefer differentiate myself from societies standards. I sweat a lot. I am NOT the typical girl next door.

With that being said, I am more than just a pretty face; I am intelligent & respectable, slightly quarky, but classy when necessary. I expect to be treated like a lady, and although I'm not the "princess" type, I would like to meet a man who enjoys treating his girl to a little pampering and romance from time to time.
What I’m doing with my life
Just recently achieved the goal of buying my first home in Antioch, and have endless projects to keep me busy. I also dabble in photography so I may be out on a shoot with people or exploring & shooting the scenery. I have not had a chance to travel yet, so I am anxious to start, just need a good travel partner. I am interested in learning the craft of woodworking.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at saying inappropriate things and laughing too loud. I can adapt to just about any environment or social setting. Some say I am good with a camera...Photography is a long time hobby. I am often asked for my opinion or direction by friends, so I suppose I have good insight.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: Mexican is my #1 Favorite, next is Sushi & Italian. Snacks...salty or spicy...I love beef jerky! OMG YUM!
I don't like sweets much.
Music: RnB, Neo-Soul, Neo-Jazz, Hip-Hop, Reggae, classic rock, 90s Alternative, folk rock, etc.
Books: I tend to read non fiction, memoirs, self improvement, Financial/investing books. Magazines: Money, Fitness, National Geographic.
Movies: Pixar, Action, Drama, Crime, Comedy, psychological thrillers, etc.
The six things I could never do without
My friends
my faith
Independent financial security
lip gloss
Music
Mexican food :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Trying to figure out how things work, how some things came to be, why people do what they do, and more efficient ways to do things.
Money...I am always thinking about ways to invest or get the most for my money...But don't get me wrong, I am not materialistic, just very investment minded.
On a typical Friday night I am
Ideally I will be with friends, whether it be out on the town or at someone's house...I can also appreciate quiet evening at home with a glass of wine and a home cooked meal. But as of recent I can be found at Home Depot preparing for the next weekend project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I never had the privilege of getting braces as a kid, and my teeth have always been an insecurity. These days it doesn't stop me from smiling, but one of my goals is to get braces.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message me if you are an attractive, independent, mature, responsible man. Physical attraction is important to me...with that being said, I am most attracted to those who are physically fit and live a healthy life style.

If you like to get out and do things rather than sit at home and watch TV or play video games all day...you like the out doors, travel, spontaneous day/weekend trips/drives.

You don't mind some night life every now and then, are not up-tight, and can handle a chic with a feisty personality.