Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am the kind of girl who is not afraid to get her hands dirty,
loves the outdoors, photography, hiking, camping, the beach, and
exploring new places, trying new food, going to festivals etc. and
I would like to start traveling more. I'm not much of a party girl
these days, but I do enjoy having drinks with friends, and being
social. I'm also a Do-it-yourselfer, and enjoy working on projects
around my house…Not crafty girly projects, but projects that
require power tools. I’m also health conscious and try to eat as
clean (minimally processed foods, organic, GMO free etc.) as I can.
I am a homeowner and have a great job, but a long commute, so I am
also working on my license to get started in a new line of work
that will allow me to be self-employed and have more control over
As for my personality, I am a bit nerdy in the sense that I love
information and knowledge. I like to know the why and how behind
things. I’m also a bit feisty and outspoken...but not
confrontational. You can always trust that I’ll tell you exactly
what is on my mind.I enjoy my swear words and have a sarcastic
sense of humor. I believe in keeping up my appearance and like to
look presentable when I go out of the house, but I am not
materialistic or superficial. That’s not to say that I don’t care
about looks…I am human and must be physically attracted to someone
to feel Romantic or intimate with them. Obviously, regardless of
how many boxes you check, there must be chemistry for something to
What I'm looking for:
Someone local (contra costa county or near Antioch). South Bay, SF
& Sacramento areas are too far for me to consider, please
Someone in their 30s to mid 40s
Someone fit & lives a healthy lifestyle
Someone open to a relationship
Someone who enjoys the outdoors
Respectful to people in general
Good morals & values
Turn ons: (Icing on the cake)
Bad boy appearance
Good boy heart
Stable (mentally, emotionally, financially)
Awakened (extra point if you know what that means)
Turn offs: (Deal Breakers)
Looking for a hook up
Sugar daddy mentality
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I own a home in Antioch and have endless DIY projects to keep me
busy. I also dabble in photography. I am working toward a career
change and studying for my license to do so. And I am always
evolving spiritualy & intellectually & am interested in
metaphysics and natural medicine. I have not had a chance to travel
much, so I am anxious to start...just need a good travel partner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finances & money management. Saying inappropriate things, being
blunt and out spoken, laughing too loud & singing in the car.
Some say I am good with a camera. I am often asked for my opinion
or direction by friends, so I suppose I have good insight.
Detecting BS is a specialty ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Mexican is #1, next is Sushi & Italian. Snacks...salty or
spicy...I love beef jerky, Chips & Salsa, and popcorn! OMG YUM!
I don't like sweets much.
Music: RnB, Neo-Soul, Neo-Jazz, Hip-Hop, Reggae, classic rock, 90s
Alternative, folk rock, Pop, Popular radio stuff, etc.
Reads: I tend to read non fiction: spiritual/self improvement,
Finance/investing, metaphysics, health.
Magazines: Money, Fitness, National Geographic, Home
Movies: Pixar, Action, Drama, Crime, Comedy, psychological
thrillers, Romantic comedies, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Independent financial security
Mexican food :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next DIY house project.
Money...I am always thinking about ways to invest or get the most
for my money...But don't get me wrong, I am not materialistic, just
very investment minded.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally I will be with friends, whether it be out on the town or at
someone's house...I can also appreciate quiet evening at home with
a glass of wine and a home cooked meal. But as of recent I can be
found at Home Depot preparing for the next weekend project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never had the privilege of getting braces as a kid, and my teeth
were always an insecurity growing up. These days it doesn't stop me
from smiling, but one of my goals is to get braces.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if you are an attractive, independent, mature,
responsible man. Physical attraction is important to me...with that
being said, I am most attracted to those who are physically fit and
live a health conscious life style...but don't worry I'm not a
If you like to get out and do things rather than sit at home and
watch TV or play video games all day...you like the out doors,
travel, spontaneous day/weekend trips/drives.
You don't mind some night life every now and then, are not
up-tight, and can handle a chic with a feisty personality.
Who are you looking for?
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