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westsideofvenus

34 Antioch, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:40pm
Orientation
Straight
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Fit
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here are some very simple, straight forward facts about me:

What I'm looking for:
Someone local (contra costa county or near Antioch)
Someone fit & lives a healthy lifestyle
Someone open to a relationship
Someone who enjoys the outdoors
Respectful to people in general
Good morals & values
Family oriented
It goes without being said, but there must be a physical attraction...its human nature. So please don't assume that because you check all the boxes on this "list", that I should be all over you.

Turn ons:
Tattoos
Fit physique
Handy
Bad boy appearance
Good boy heart
Stable (mentally, emotionally, financially)
Active

Turn offs:
Heavy set/over weight physique
Lazy
Arrogant/cocky
Looking for a hook up
Hood/ghetto
Dorky
Sugar daddy mentality
Profiles with no photos of yourself
Or photos that are not clear....if I can't see your face clearly (dark pics, blurry pics, hat or glasses covering face) you won't get a reply.

Me:
Liberal (like "**** the system" liberal)
Out spoken/blunt
Independent
Homeowner
Feisty
Not your girl next door
Not high maintenance
Not religious
Not superficial
Hands on/DIY/handy
Bulldog mom
No kids
Loves the outdoors
Interested in metaphysics
Spiritual
Respectful
Intellectual
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I own a home in Antioch and have endless DIY projects to keep me busy. I also dabble in photography. I am working toward a career change and studying for my license to do so. And I am always evolving spiritualy & intellectually & am interested in metaphysics and natural medicine. I have not had a chance to travel much, so I am anxious to start...just need a good travel partner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finances & money management. Saying inappropriate things, being blunt and out spoken, laughing too loud & singing in the car. Some say I am good with a camera. I am often asked for my opinion or direction by friends, so I suppose I have good insight. Detecting BS is a specialty ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, and teeth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Mexican is #1, next is Sushi & Italian. Snacks...salty or spicy...I love beef jerky, Chips & Salsa, and popcorn! OMG YUM! I don't like sweets much.
Music: RnB, Neo-Soul, Neo-Jazz, Hip-Hop, Reggae, classic rock, 90s Alternative, folk rock, Pop, Popular radio stuff, etc.
Reads: I tend to read non fiction: spiritual/self improvement, Finance/investing, metaphysics, health.
Magazines: Money, Fitness, National Geographic, Home improvement.
Movies: Pixar, Action, Drama, Crime, Comedy, psychological thrillers, Romantic comedies, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
my faith/spirituality
Independent financial security
lip gloss
Music
Mexican food :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next DIY house project.
Money...I am always thinking about ways to invest or get the most for my money...But don't get me wrong, I am not materialistic, just very investment minded.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ideally I will be with friends, whether it be out on the town or at someone's house...I can also appreciate quiet evening at home with a glass of wine and a home cooked meal. But as of recent I can be found at Home Depot preparing for the next weekend project.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never had the privilege of getting braces as a kid, and my teeth were always an insecurity growing up. These days it doesn't stop me from smiling, but one of my goals is to get braces.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if you are an attractive, independent, mature, responsible man. Physical attraction is important to me...with that being said, I am most attracted to those who are physically fit and live a health conscious life style...but don't worry I'm not a health nut.

If you like to get out and do things rather than sit at home and watch TV or play video games all day...you like the out doors, travel, spontaneous day/weekend trips/drives.

You don't mind some night life every now and then, are not up-tight, and can handle a chic with a feisty personality.