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30 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 13
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on masters program
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French, Other
My self-summary
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Combine equal parts black coffee, whiskey, and beer. Shake vigorously and pour over blithe cubes. Top off with empathy. Garnish with hastily attempted moderation.

Born and raised in San Francisco. Moved to New York because where else do you go after SF? Dipped my toes in France and Kenya. Plotting my next move.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working on my elementary ed masters, so essentially trying to survive grad school with my enthusiasm and drive intact.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recognizing hip-hop samples. Compiling mixtapes. Brewing beer. Cooking without recipes.

I'm not really good at self-promotion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Some of everything and all of nothing. Lots of jazz, hip-hop, and soul these days, but lots of anything else on others. Anything African or Brazilian on all days.

This might be my favorite song.

Just read A Member of the Wedding by Carson McCullers. If you haven't read it, turn off your computer and do so now.

I'll eat anything you put in front of me--the weirder, the better. I also love to cook (especially while listening to music).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sriracha and soy sauce are really all I need, and a bike to get wherever I'm going to use them. And I wouldn't say no to some jams on the stereo and suds in my mug.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking. What happened before the big bang? What private dramas are playing out in the heads of the people I pass in the street? What's for dinner?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Debating whether I'd rather enjoy all of Friday night or some of Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A friend once compared me to Arthur, the children's book character. It was more accurate than I care to admit. Still not sure if she meant it as a compliment.
You should message me if
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You want to do things--like hike in the Hudson Valley or eat in Jackson Heights or ride bikes in Red Hook.

You'd be equally content to spend a night out raising hell till dawn or curled up on the couch listening to records.

Wrong-side-of-the-bed days notwithstanding, you're comfortable with yourself and happy with your life here on planet NYC.