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whatacalamity

27 Saint Louis, MO Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:39pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am calm and collected most of the time, but I am not laid back or carefree.

I'm working through a transition in life and am looking to make the moments that I have to chill out even better. On a hiatus from school, working a part time job while volunteering to resurrect a struggling non profit, I'm looking for new ways and companions to step outside that bubble.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on being a better listener. Making.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
my strengths are patience and using my hands. I'm good at what I dedicate my mind to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Pedagogy of the Oppressed, The Road Less Traveled, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.

Office Space, Broken, Being John Malkovich, Stranger Than Fiction, Instrument, Idiocracy, Detachment

The Critic, Kids in the Hall, Doctor Who, Dilbert, Arrested Development

Joni Mitchell, Fugazi, The Toadies, Guided By Voices, PJ Harvey, Igor Stravinsky, Neil Young, Claude Debussy, The Call, Yes, Rush
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Opportunities to teach, adventure, and create. To do these activities with other people.

Luckily I create those opportunities for myself. You can too.

Alternate list:
a guitar
a foresty escape
a bicycle
companionship
a few tools
an organizer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Compassion. Dreams.

Questions: What makes us the same? What makes us different? How can I make that? What color is that? How can I be better at solving dilemmas? Is god present now? How would the world be different if self-awareness and dedication were higher priorities for most people.

I think about the effect we have on the world and each other by making things we don't need and putting them that we don't live instead of to some other use:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5ZKk11R56o
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
breathing. making art. hanging out with my best friend. at a show.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are concerned, adventurous, thoughtful, creative, weird, and compassionate, I want to talk to you.

If your day-job is difficult to explain.

If you DIY.