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27 M Saint Louis, MO

My Details

Last Online
Aug 25
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I could be described as a cultural hybrid of punk rocker and mover shaker. I have rough edges and am fighting the good fight. I am not conventional, nor is my life. DIY is my way of getting things done, and that way of life keeps me more connected with other people.

I am calm and collected most of the time, but I am not laid back or carefree.

I question the social practices we do out of hegemony. I am looking for individuals who challenge and are challenging.
What I’m doing with my life
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Once upon a time, I was going to be an engineer, then I was going to do "something" with art, then was going to be a school art teacher. Now my work life is devoted to 2 non-profit organizations where I teach, manage, and administrate programs involving bicycles, computers, orchestral music, punk music, and DIY ethics and community.

I work with young people to join them on the journey to their own self-discovery, as well as mine, while finding the time to write music for guitar, to start painting again, and learn the carpentry techniques to build any furniture I need. I'm working on a stereo rack.

I ride bikes to get where I have to go if I haven't procrastinated too much, or if I don't have to transport a bulk of supplies to the other side of town.

I make my own peanut butter and cashew butter.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
my strengths are mediation, patience, and using my hands. I'm good at what I dedicate my mind to.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pedagogy of the Oppressed, The Road Less Traveled, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.

Office Space, Being John Malkovich, Stranger Than Fiction, Instrument, Idiocracy

Joni Mitchell, Fugazi, Janis Ian, Guided By Voices, Igor Stravinsky, Neil Young, PJ Harvey, Shellack, Claude Debussy, Will Oldham, The Call
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Opportunities to teach, adventure, and create. To do these activities with other people.

Luckily I create those opportunities for myself. You can too.

Alternate list:
a guitar
a foresty escape
a bicycle
a few tools
an organizer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I make that? What color is that? How can I be better at solving dilemmas?

I am concerned about the effect we have on the world and each other by making things we don't need and putting them somewhere instead of to some other use:
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
breathing. making art. hanging out with my best friend. at a show.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are concerned, adventurous, thoughtful, creative, weird, and compassionate, I probably want to talk to you.

If your day-job is difficult to explain.

Just so you know, I don't reply to messages that contain only a greeting and/or compliment.