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43 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm pretty spiritual and pretty down to Earth, really easy going and enjoying life. Sometimes I get down on things and then remember what an amazing gift each day is, each moment for that matter, and then I feel so much appreciation and joy for life. I'm remembering a funny skit by CK Lewis that was about appreciating life and laughing at our selves when we get uptight. I hope you enjoy this:

http://www.youtwitface.com/2012/10/everything-amazing-nobody-happy/

"Remember, you sitting on a chair in the sky!" How about having that kind of appreciation for life!? I can't say that I have that every day but it sure is a good reminder.

I like simple joys, being in nature, a good talk with friends, dance. I like going out to parties or social gatherings and can also be content staying at home, especially when I'm in a relationship.

I'm really curious about people and like to get to know them. I honestly think we're all pretty amazing and I most enjoy bringing that out in myself and others.
What I’m doing with my life
I have been living in Oakland for two years after living in Bali for a almost a year. I had sold a business that I started before that and decided to go unwind out of the states for a while. It was awesome.

I'm working again now, in sales and marketing, for a couple of companies and I'm also writing a book. The book is about my life experience, about being present in the moment, and how to live in optimum flow with life. I've taught meditation off and on for years and writing this book is clarifying what my teaching is. I really enjoy working on it a little bit each day.
I’m really good at
listening and being present
having a good laugh
developing a sales and marketing strategy (god that sounds dry but its fun too)
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. My thinning hair, yikes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now. Rumi, Hafiz and other poets. I've read a lot of spiritual books but am looking for some good fiction to read. Any suggestions?

Movies: 42 was so inspiring and of course Silver Linings Playbook. Thats a great date film right?
The six things I could never do without
Nature
Dance & Music
Laughter
Loved Ones
Sex and sensuality
Purpose and meaning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
not trying to think too much. I really care about the world though and all the things going on and the big changes that are happening. It makes me want to contribute to make the world a better a place.
On a typical Friday night I am
Often will go out and do something, dinner, a movie, music, dance, a performance, it depends. Sometimes just stay home too.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating