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37 M Santa Cruz, CA

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  • Ages 21–99
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Has a kid, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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I realized I haven't said nearly half of what interests me, who I am, what I'm looking for or where i want to be, but , in due time...
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it. Trying to create music. Working full time as a Registered Nurse. Playing and pretending and going into imagination land with my 5 year old daughter. Being a good Father.

I love my patients. I make music as much as I can, same with writing and rhyming and poetry.
Dreaming, working, playing, creating, accepting enduring and it don't stop and it don't quit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy . Taking care of others. Practicing lookin hard. Listening to gangsta rap or indian or folk or spanish music.... trying to play pool... listening to music while playing pool. I don't even play pool that often
The first things people usually notice about me
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My Stunning good ...views on the world
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't watch too many movies these days, but I used to watch Old Classic Movies, Some silents.

"The Fall" is a favorite of mine.

I just watched "Juice" again , it was so good.
Boyz n tha Hood. Blancanieves , The Tiger and the Snow, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, documentaries, The Lion King, Dancer in the Dark, beasts of the southern wild,... and on and on and it don't stop and it don't quit.
Music: whatever is inspiring, heartfelt and heart-wrenching -Drums, Bright Eyes, Jayo Felony, Sam Cooke, E-40, Tupac, Devin the Dude, Biggie, First Aid Kit, my daughter singing, Mississippi John Hurt, Blind Willie McTell, Pharoahe Monch. Chris and Thomas, tom waits, suga free, fiona apple, B - legit, Nina Simone, ugk, funk, nate dog, brotha lynch hung, Culture, Bob Dylan, Peter Tosh, Bob Marley, Ragas, Ravi Shankar, Elvis, Guns n'Roses, The Reyes Brothers. .....Blind Melon, Black Melt, Rihanna, Sasha Lazard, Amy Whitehouse, New Edition, Madonna, Espinoza Paz, Tom Waits, Gillian Welch, Scarface........
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, music , a pen (although the mind will suffice, but it's nice to document your feelings). Sleep. Enjoying going to work, feeling grateful and sentimental.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trying not to think a lot about things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to write a song, putting my daughter to bed. Thinking I should go somewhere. If there's some band worth seeing....feeling good
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like Lions.
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If you meet all these requirements.
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