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39 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 3
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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I'm a thinker. i'm a performer. and i'm a designer of things that perform. I've been very motivated in my life to make a lot of artistic work.

I've been in long relationships and would love to have that again. currently i live in a fabulous home with other artists and i make sure to get out and play a lot, Be in the world of things going on.

But as i said, i'm also a thinker. so i ponder a lot. make lists. Come up with great ideas. I've always got an idea. I'm also a mover. I've studied forms of movement in depth and use it in my art.

I don't do yoga. i'm not against it. i just tend to get bored when i do it. i want to like it. but i don't care that much. about yoga.
What I’m doing with my life
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i make art and performance. I play. and I think hard.
I'm very unattached right now. I could go to Japan for a few years, i could move to the country upstate, i could start another big ridiculous art project. Not sure. I'm being alive. I'm listening. i'm enjoying the ride and ready to jump on a train.

I make a lot of stuff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
free-style dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
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i'm small and cute. i look very young for my age. i'm smart. and i'm quirky. And that i seem to give off the vibe that i am a vegetarian. People who i've just met make a point of making sure i can eat what is in front of me. i'm not a vegetarian.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cinema 1 by Deleuze.
Return of the Real by Hal Foster.
Rosalind Kraus is awesome.
also trashy sci-fi. and good sci-fi.

Don't talk to me about those other two films, but don't dis The Matrix.
also: The Maltese Falcon, Bladerunner, Real Genius, Labyrinth. I like "good" movies too... just can't think of any off the top of my head. ha! I seem to be keeping up with popular culture less and less. Or maybe its living in New York. (more than a decade now) Feel like i can never cram it all in. So i take what comes and enjoy that. Follow the trail.

music is a tough one for me because i always seem to be behind. I have a lot of music from other people that i don't know what album its on or necessarily who the band is, but i know how it sounds and how it makes me feel. Currently listening to Florence and the Machines, Cat Power, Kate Nash, Neutral Milk Hotel, Swan Lake.

And i'm learning how to play drums. a kit. Not so that i can be in a band, but rather so that i can make noise.

see above about food!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
#1 needle nose pliers.
#2 paper and pen and pencil.
#3 bicycle.
#4-6 hot glue, duct tape, utility knife.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The psychological impacts of the advent of so much new technology. The change in the speed of existence (by technology or age!)
The history of attention.
My tiny internal muscles.
new ideas. new systems.
images... color... motion... rhythm... as these synaesthetic sensory concepts relate to real things.
memory and consciousness
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
or at home working.
or at home hanging with my roomies.
or at some unusual happening
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't shave my armpits.
(or anything else for that matter)
(unless it goes better with my outfit)
You should message me if
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You know how to play.

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