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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 11
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other and laughing about it
Might want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I see myself as someone with a large spirit - a spirit of adventure, a love of life, of heart and of human connection, and a love of the natural world and the world of thought. I enjoy people, intelligent conversation, music, festivals, good books, visual art, and I value family, though unfortunately none have the good sense to live nearby. At this time in my life, I'm open to new adventures and new friendships.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm watching lots of sunsets and noticing how good that feels, with or without a dog or a human friend by my side. I'm a slow but voracious reader. I generally spend a month or two in Mexico and/or New England and I look forward to more traveling. I'm devoting a lot of energy to improving my Spanish. I love to go out and hear live music, and volunteer my time at a couple of venues. I stare at the clouds and out at the ocean and think or not-think. I'm semi-retired and enjoying it.
I’m really good at
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I'm very playful and enjoy relaxing. I'm told that one strength is my ability to emotionally connect to others, and I really enjoy my own company... well, usually. I'm financially responsible, very intelligent, emotionally mature... again, usually.... and I have a generally upbeat nature (though sometimes cranky, sometimes glum, I admit it). Laughter always comes easy to me, especially at myself, and I enjoy making others laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People comment that I have a friendly open face. I often get big smiles from strangers on the street or at the beach or market.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love good indie and foreign movies and I enjoy live music of many styles, especially acoustic music. I'm a frequent reader with eclectic tastes. I read classics, contemporary fiction, memoirs, the Sunday funnies, and generally anything that appeals to me. I just started Dickens' Hard Times and I recently finished books by Robertson Davies, A. S. Byatt, Shirley Jackson, C. S. Lewis, Jonathon Franzen. I love anything by David Sedaris, Tom McGuane, Louise Erdrich... and many, many others. In theory, I'm committed to healthful eating, whole and fresh foods in moderate portions, but I easily succumb to the lure of tacos, pizza, or prime rib.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, air, and reading glasses.
Good friends - new and old.
Intimate connection.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Nothing is sacred - ask me.