I can braid hair faster than you. I can fix pretty much anything; try me. I can hold my breath long enuff that I get accused of cheating. I'm extremely mediocre at many sports and musical instruments. During a heat wave, I wait till 1PM to run in a canyon. I've had my face stitched up 6 times. Along with sporty fun stuff, I have perhaps one of the dorkiest hobbies ever. I'm not a good singer but I don't care, just smile and act like you are enjoying it. I look silly on the dance floor and also don't care.
What people tell me about me:
I'm witty, fun if perhaps a bit hard to keep up with, a wonderful Dad and a bit of a dork :)
Our first date?
Some adventure where we can laugh and relax and feel each other out to see if we mesh. Either way we'll be better off having met and learned something from each other.
What I've learned from past relationships:
The truth is somewhere in the middle. Listen and you'll find it. Honesty can be brutal, but is normally the right choice. Assume nothing and say what you're thinking. The little things are way more important than you think. You can find love, but you have to maintain it. A relationship done right brings out the best in both of you. It's worth waiting for the right person.
What I'm looking for:
A woman who is kind but not weak, is sassy and intelligent, clever, sociable, secure with her body and sexuality, stays fit for herself and for me, has her own life and friends, has already let go of the past, is accepting and fair to my girls, can acknowledge both sides of an argument, likes the beach, likes to travel, finds beauty in her surroundings, can make her own decisions independent of her friends, has a strong sex drive, loves to constantly learn and is just a fun person to be around.