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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jan 20
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Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Sweet, silly, sarcastic, loyal, warm, wise, wondering for wonder's sake, big on dreams, vast possibilities.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being one with serendipity. Sifting out dregs from consequence. Not thinking about the next best thing. Living well and enjoying it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going to bed too late. Waking up too early. Running on empty. Slaying SF hills in few bounds. Editing marginal writing (including my own). (Almost) knowing when to quit.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm comfortable in my own skin
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Venn diagrams sure to overlap but currently on tap . . .
On a ... Wild Sheep Chase with murakami, last watched - breaking bad marathon under excuse of stormy weather, comedians in cars going for coffee, blues at the deluxe (blues forever dammit). Good food yes. Dicey food maybe circumstances demanding. Fancy food not meeting mark, rarely.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
wandering big wide world
getting the blood flowing
my next wild idea
your next wild idea
pillow forts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the quick moving current streaming in my head. Invitations from pretty, sharp girls to bike, ski, scuba, submerse in the sea.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
covering the waterfront, on a hill, down the alley, around the bend, up a creek, in the jungles of South America, on the moon.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My cagey political filter for monitoring what escapes me mouth in disrepair.

Persuasive, persuadable - not rigid on particularities tonight or transpiring.
You should message me if
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You're game. You're happy. You're funny. You're fun. You trend figurative over literal. You don't take yourself too seriously. You like to be entertained but not sitting back waiting to be ...